Children After 40

United States
January 3, 2007 3:21pm CST
I'm 39 and married for the first time less than two years. My husband has two kids from a previous marriage who live in another state. I just wanted to see if anyone had any thoughts on kids after 40...energy...health risks...how old is too old?
5 responses
@jolanda33 (720)
• Netherlands
5 Jan 07
if you realy want to have a kid go for it! i think you go to the doctor to ask wath the risks are at your age! i am 38 and have 2 kids, the last one is 7,5 months. we decided not to do any tests at all, thank god both of my girls are healthy! and if you're feeling good why not! but hurry, it can take a little time to get pregnant!
@reinydawn (11643)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I have friends in the early-mid 40's with little children (one about 7, the other maybe 2). It was very hard for the woman to concieve - cost a small fortune and they actually went to a foreign country where it was cheaper. Another friend went the adoption route instead of the invetro. Then some people have on problems at all. I personall am glad that my kids are grown, I don't know that I could chase a toddler around at this stage in the game. Good Luck!
• United States
3 Jan 07
If that is what you both want, then go for it. I know medically it is tougher for older women, since pregnancy takes alot out of the body, main things is to ensure you are fit, and eating properly, you want to make your body as strong and effiecient as possible for your possible pregnancy.
• Hong Kong
4 Jan 07
en,It is not an easy issue to have a baby at your age, especially for the first time. There may be some health risks not only to you but also the baby. It is said that the best time to have the first baby is at the age of 20 to 30. I think you need consult a doctor firstly, maybe the doctor would give you some good advices. Good luck to you!
• China
4 Jan 07
i am near 29 years old now, i want to have a kid before 30, because in China most people think after 30-year-old is very dangerous to have baby, scientifically,twenties is the golden age to have baby.