Men, are you whipped? Is your wife or girlfriend in control?

Well, what I meant by dominant is, I usually seem to end up in that role just naturally. I don't really consciously think about it, but I never have a problem making the final decision regardless of if my girl has an opinion on the subject of conversation or not. I just naturally tend to take the lead in manners. I don't have a problem leaving a decision about something or another up to her unless I feel strongly about it, but if she has no opinion, it never turns into a back and forth "I don't know, what do you wanna do?" fest - I avoid that by making the decision even if I don't mind one way or the other.

you dont have to be married...

Well, what you describe doesn't mean your man is whipped, but what you described also isn't how I define whipped. Asking him to do something for you is perfectly normal... but as a comparison, hypothetically, if you were ordering him to do something and he jumps up and does it right away, but then if he asked you to do something you would say "do it yourself", then that would make him whipped. I know many guys who are like this, but it's harder to get through people's heads when talking to them in person. So since we are anonymous here at MyLot, I'm finding out if guys will tell more now that nobody knows them for real. I consider myself more dominant, because while I have no problems doing something she asks me to do or asking for her input on something, I have no problem making the final decision if she doesn't have any input, and often I'll make a decision on something even if I don't have an opinion on it (not counting serious issues). So often, the girl sees this and becomes even more submissive to me on her own.