How can someone mend a heart who has been broken many times?

its really painful, i have seen these feelings.. and i know the remedy too, the time is the only factor that helps the conversion of thorns into blossom rose, but the point is ... time passes very slow (at least in this situation), i can tell you what i did those days (it took one year to heal my heart), i stopped every thing , i spent my time (now i can say my quality time) with very young children of my neighborhood, i used to play with them, i used to help them in there studies, i used to tell small stories , .. it helped me a lot ... i hope it will help you you.. i want to share one thought with you, i came across someday some where with this thought, you will feel better ...... Failure does not mean that you are a failure… It does mean that you have not succeeded yet. Failure does not mean you have accomplished nothing… It does mean you have learned something. Failure does not mean you have been a fool… It does mean you had a lot of faith. Failure does not mean you have been disgraced… It does mean you were willing to try. Failure does not mean you don’t have it… It does mean you have to do something in a different way. Failure does not mean that you are inferior… It does mean you are not perfect. Failure does not mean you have wasted your life… It does mean you have a reason to start afresh. Failure does not mean you should give up… It does mean it will take a little longer. Failure does not mean you will never make it… It does mean it will take a little longer. Failure does not mean GOD has abandoned you… It does mean GOD has a better idea.

time can heal.