is it ok to fall in love with ur best friend?
@siddarthd2919 (111)
India
8 responses
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
5 Jan 07
I also do not think there is any problem to fall in love with best friend. In fact it is good to fall in love with a person who knows you well than to a stranger and also it is good to have best friend as life partners.
@sweets9900 (726)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I think it's best to fall in love with a best friend. You both know each other well and don't have to wonder.
@ichampin (593)
• India
4 Jan 07
Falling love with youe best friend is the most obvious and natural thing one can do, you are friend with your best friend because they understand you and you feel comfortable with your best friend, You listen to your best friend and they listen to you.
In relationship what you seek these are all the things which you also seek in relationship with a lover. So it is ok to fall in love with your best friend
@LauraNicole715 (62)
• United States
4 Jan 07
My boyfriend was my best friend before we took it to the next level, and I can still say he continues to hold my best friend position. He's still the one I can talk to about anything, and I trust him with my life. We've been together for two years and still going strong. I say follow your heart, and if your heart leads you to a friend, then go!
@royrules1 (180)
• India
14 Jan 07
a best friend can always be a best lover and a best wife that is my personal experience in my life !
@purposedriven (842)
• United States
5 Jan 07
If both of you are on the same page and show similar feelings, then it's ok. If you are willing to work at the relationship together even though you think you already know everything there is to know about each other, is a plus! You will not like to jeopardize the friendship you have with him/her without knowing how you both feel about each other and working at it to be more than friends. Because you are best friends, doesn't always mean you will be best couple.
I once fell in love with my best friend. At first I didn't want to go into a relationship with him because I was afraid of losing him as my best friend. We knew each so well it was scary. Well, to make a long story short...it didn't last. After almost 4 years, it was over. I was devastated because not only did I lose my boyfriend, I lost my best friend.
Two years later I fell in love all over again, with a friend from high school. We are still together and our love has grown and he is now and always will be my very best friend. So, I think it's ok to fall in love with your best friend, but in my case...I fell in love and he became my best friend. When there is room for improvement, nothing can ever go wrong. Everyday, we learn something new about each other.
@Shilpi0202 (188)
• India
5 Jan 07
Am going around with my best friend. And consider myself lucky to have found love in a person with whom i can share all my secrets and feelings. Being my best friend, he really understands me well and doesn't hurt my feelings.
@manirocky (9)
• India
6 Jan 07
ur qust in not a valid one!
sorry! friends are like mother who realy care 4 us!
my point of view, its wrong!
but it differs!...
@shilpa28k (1737)
• India
5 Jan 07
I am single, and it is ok if i fall in love with our best friend. Because we can known his likes and dislikes. So there will be no problem after marriage. I m telling you if you fall in love with your best friend and she also think the same thing and you goahead. All the best.
@VMKUMAR (47)
• India
4 Jan 07
No,it is bad 2 fall in love with a best girl-friend ...we must share our Happiness and Sorrows with her bt we shouldn't fall n love...Friendship should never end in love.....