help for my friend!

@ddm610 (117)
Philippines
January 4, 2007 10:56am CST
This is the problem of my friend. He had a girlfriend whom he really loved for two years. But this girl does not really appreciate what he has been doing for her for years. She broke up with him with the alibi that she will just finish her studies and asked my friend to wait for her. But not long after, we heard that the girl is dating other guys then we found out that she had a new boyfriend. My friend was so hurt for this so he started dating other girls. BUt he still loves his ex. one day, his ex-girlfriend called her up and asked if they could talk. my friend met with her and then the girl said that she wants to bring back the relationship that they had. My friend wants to know why, then the girl said that she experienced karma for leaving him. This is because...she is pregnant with her current boyfriend (she has been with this guy for only one month). She said she did not like what happened because she was too drunk then. The girl wants her and my friend to be together again because she said she didn't love her boyfriend. She said she already took capsules that would abort the baby so they wouldn't have something to worry. She said she wants to change and start all over again with my friend. My friend loves her so much that he accepted her again, despite all her mistakes. But after talking to her my friend asked me if what he did was right. of course i said no, for me he isn't supposed to be in that situation because the girl already left him and went to bed with another guy. The girl is not his responsibility anymore. His worry is that his family might get angry at him once they know that the girl had become pregnant with another guy, or once the baby continues to form (if the medicine she took fails to abort the baby)and this baby is not his. But he loves the girl so much that even if i see that the girl is just using her, i feel that i do not have the right to keep him from following his heart. but i'm very concerned with my friend since this decision could affect his whole life. Once he commits himself to the girl, it would be forever, whether the baby gets aborted or not. He would forever carry the fact that her wife sinned to him, and if she had not been pregnant with another guy maybe she wouldn't have come back to him. so what do you think about the decision of my friend? i already told him how crazy he is, i even cried because he shouldn't be in this situation. He should be out of this. But that girl is so evil!
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