A young girl of 18 started loving me it seems, But I am fifty two

you must tell her directly.He is verry young he will pass over...but if you don't tell her she will be more disspointed.She must live her life, she must macke a friend of hic age.Somebody must tell her that.Or try not to talck to her anymore becouse you're doing a bad thinck to her.it doesn't mather that she will be upset but she is just a child.

If you don't love her, don't let her love you. it's lucky that your wife know well the story and doesn't find fault with you. So, ask you wife to talk with that 18 year old girl to stop disturbing you.

Are you sure? Has she actually said she loves you? You possibly have misunderstood the situation.

when ur wife knows abt it y shud u feel worried abt. chill n stay calm enjoy life. A girl is grown enough to whts good n whts not for her

If your guess is correct then you can try one (or all) method out of these five. 1)You ignore her every time she comes to talk you. 2)Talk harshly or bitterly even if she talks some normal discussion. 3)Your wife being a lady she can just shout at her when you are not at home. 4)Tell her parents about this issue and ask them to stop her coming to your place. 5)Say her that this and this girl is more beautiful than you. Always praise some other girl in front of her till she gets irritated. I am sure you will succeed! Right? Write on mylot when you come out. OK?

Be tactful and take about how much you love your wife and kids. Speak about how you love the little things she does. Show you are family centered.

she loves you? or she"loves" you...? Do you have a real big company? Is so...it's OK ... else.....it`s perfect..share your time with her.. :) Just try ;) Peace! :)

To me it seems she is nice to you as she may be interested in your 20year old son. give a thought to this.

hi, is it possible she is missing a fatherfigure? make sure that your not interested, and let her go if she tries anything then you must do somethingand talk to her! dont'you remember the time, when your in love with your teacher at the age of 6/7? a lot of girls are going to be young adults, they may be look up to older men! the boys on their own age are so immature(that is what they say) so maybe it is just a crush! hope you can solve it!

I commend you for not wanting to cheat on your wife, that is awesome. Are you sure this 18yr old has a thing for you? I am just asking cause it could be extremly embarassing confronting her if she is just overly friendly by nature. If she truly does love you or have a thing for you, well then you do need to confront her in a nice way not a harsh one. Just explain to her that you do not feel comfortable with how she seems to be acting towards you and that nothing but a platonic friendship could ever happen. Hopefully she respects this, if not you may have to be a little more firm. Good luck!

Well woman, not all, can be very persistent. Some can be all out psychopaths. For one, I say your best bet even if you dont like it, is to find another hobby before this adolescent tries to interfere with your life or even worse. You may not believe it but especially these days girls are even more devious and dangerous at their young age. If you dont believe me then just wait and see, but I dont advise it. Just play it safe and get out of the situation. Sometimes you just have to take a big step before someone else does. Atleast you and your family could go on with your lives in peace like life is meant to be.You may think its the best thing to tell this girl about your feelings and let her down, but it could just cause more problems than you ever imagined. I may not know you but as a fellow human being and someone who has dealt with alot of people, including all ages and all races. Theres just not that many sane people anymore. Thats why I wish I was born back in the 20's or 30's. Atleast you could trust a better amount of people back then.Please be safe and god bless.

Its ok because its a natural feeling about which u come to know very late. If she loves u its ok but keep a control on ur self

The age difference if not a big deal, but you are married. If you were single you can persuite it, but i understand that you are happiky married. It is a possibility that the girl is just friendly and outgoing. It can also be a crush, i honestly dont think that she is in love with you. I would suggest to distance yourself a little from her, but if she pushes you can definitly confront her and explain that you are married and honestly not interested.

Just because she has a crush on you (not the same as being in love...) doesn't mean she is silly enough to act on it. I had crushes on older men when I was young, but never pursued them. If she hasn't actually stated her feelings or bought up the subject, I would just "play dumb" and treat her as you do everyone else, except maybe bring up how great your wife is in conversation more often. She will probably naturally lose interest and find someone closer to her age. If she does bring it up, tell her she is a lovely person, but that you are very much in love with your wife and only view her as a friend and nothing more (then be sure not to spend too much time with her after that, especially not alone). She may be disappointed, but that is part of life. Good luck.

hey great. you are lucky. im still not married and i find it difficult to get one.

dont worry about it many young girls get a crush on older men at one time or another usually it is girls who are very attached to thier father or lacking a close father relationship and are needy for such a relationship ,so often they will confuse these feelings with those of love and become involved sexually with a older man , some older men also find themselvves unhappy with the ageing process and unfortunately will accept the approaches of a young girl but in most cases both do not understand the drive behind this attraction and may ruin thier current lives in the process my advic would not to think seriously of it dont giv her any acess to you other than normal conversation and keep giving your wife the attention she deserves

u might hav mistaken and be thinking that she is in love with u..some girls do behave in very friendly manner...if ur not comfortable moving with her i guess u can ignore her by giving excuses..by any chance dont spoil ur happy family...

Love can happen in any age...dont break her heart now..make her understand the fact that age gap does matter..and give her time to think

i think u shoul ask her wat she wants and try 2 make her understand dat u r jst like my daughar and make her considerd to leave all dat and consentrate on her studies otherwise u ill tell to her parents abt her behaivour... may b she will afraid of that and stop all dat.... try this and 4 u try 2 avoid her... dnt talk 2 her friendly....... try 2 b rude with her.......

You must to tell her immediately. Don't hesitate because if you don't tell her any sooner, she'll be even more disappointed later on. You must mention that you are a family man who loves his wife and son very much.