Are you a nice person?
By umjuna
@umjuna (100)
Netherlands
January 4, 2007 4:30pm CST
When you ask about yourself, are you a nice person? What would be the answer? Do you like yourself. And I am obviously not talking about, the physical appearance. But the inside. Would you like to be around you? I sometimes ask myself that question and it helps me to be a better friend and a better wife etcetera. I believe in the importance of selfreflection. And what about those people who think they aren't nice at all? Are there any here? Do you choose to be mean?
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21 responses
@egisugiri (842)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 07
I should ask our friends, family members, and everyone that knows me. Let them tell about that. Am i nice? Only others can tell you are nice or not.
@undooit (54)
• Romania
4 Jan 07
Well I can't say somehting like this about myself. I have many friends, I spend a lot of time with them so if you could ask them you will get an answer to your question.
I am mean with people that deserve this.
You can say that I am a mirror that reflects how you treat me I'll treat you...
:)
@Hayzat (68)
• Malaysia
6 Jan 07
yes i agree with u fren. to know how we behave we ask people around. But sumtimes it s gud also to do self-correction by asking what i ve done, how did i behave today n so on. i do this every nite before i sleep n i found it so relaxing, in the sense that, i improve myself day by day
@ichampin (593)
• India
6 Jan 07
lets take first thing first, yes i think I am a nice person. I love to help people and I have no jealously for any toehr colleagues of mine, I do whatever i can do to help people but upto the limit where i am comfortable with that,
Secondly, yes ilike myself i like the way I am i don't wanted to change myself, I am happy and satisfied with what god has given me. I am just doing what i can do to make my life better and happier.
Thridly, I like to be around me i love myself.
fourthly, I don't know that there would be any person who thinks that he is not nice at all, everybody has their own mindset about themselves, there are people who think that what they are doing is nice but some other thinks that they are not nice people at all, it all depends from person to person.
No, i don't choose to be mean because in the end i'll lost everybody if i take advantage of them and forget them instantly after my work has been done.
@Hayzat (68)
• Malaysia
6 Jan 07
waa, u sounds so conficent. i like that pal! who else will appreciate ouselves more than we do. But, juz my 2cents, it always good to also ask other people around us bout how we behave.they r just like a mirror wholl then reflects to us whether we r nice or not. Adios
@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
5 Jan 07
Yes...I think I am a nice person. I think that sometimes when people push me I can become intolerate...but overall I think I am generous, compassionate..loyal and I think I would like to be friends with someone like me...However..it is good that you can look at yourself objectively like that...maybe more of us should do that...
@cwgrlsarefun (1581)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I feel that I am a very nice person. I treat others how I would like to be treated. I guess that I would love to have myself as a friend. I can not understand people wanting to be mean, what do they achieve by being this way? I have a hard time being around people who are mean.
@coldmoon (1088)
• France
5 Jan 07
I affirm to myself that I'm not a nice person at all, so if there's anybody calling down me, I never feel pity for myself or angry or very sad. If everybody thinks like me, the world become more peaceful. Clearly, a true bad person is better than a false good man. Remember that escaping from swords is easy but getting rid of arrows is difficult.
@jonny_boy250 (11)
• Romania
5 Jan 07
i think i'm a nice person , and because of that i suffered a lot . i found in my life that aren't nice at all , and every day make u to suffer.
@kuberselvam (46)
• India
5 Jan 07
Yes I am a nice person: I am friendly,care for others and their opinions,value their sentiments ,a team player,always try to help others,promote them, reward them and of course I
love my people.....
@amit163203 (21)
• India
5 Jan 07
really u impose a pertinent one..
what nice mean..if u appear nice to ohers n feel nice about uor self...u r nice...but u appear but don,t feel u might b nice but most importantly u r having inferiority complex.
@Datingtheplayer (661)
• United States
5 Jan 07
i like myself very much and i do believe i am a nice person. however i sometimes come off as mean or nasty because i speak the truth for the most part. I don't intentionnaly hurt people though.
@jenbatres (799)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I used to think I was mean, but I'm not. I am actually a very nice person, I like to help others when I can. I am not nice when others do things to my family.
@charlieb1979 (392)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I am a nice person. I am generous to a fault and loyal to a fault. Sometimes that makes me an easy target, but, still I couldn't be a mean-spirited person if I wanted to
@Lady_Vincy (1538)
• United States
4 Jan 07
I think that I am a very nice person and any of my friends will say the same thing. I don't like myselfe, I love myself. If I don't love myself then I would not be able to love anybody else. I would love to be around me.
@blackhawk27 (78)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I would say that I am a nice guy. I think it's because I give everyone respect, which in turn gives me respect from those people. I was voted the nicest guy in house by my fraterntiy (and we have over 60 members). That meant something to me. I really appreciated that. But then again, I don't feel I'm hard to get along with. I have a high patience threshold and stand to be around anybody and at least give them a chance. By nice, I mean respectful. There are times when I have to be strict and kind of come down on people when they aren't doing there job or are causing a ruccuss, but all in all, I feel that I am a nice person.
