what do u prefer a love marriage or arranged marriage

India
January 4, 2007 11:52pm CST
friends i prefer love marriage what do u prefer?
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8 responses
@kritipen (4082)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I am ok with both of them.
• United States
6 Jan 07
i would have to say i would prefer a love marraige. an arranged marriage is all well and good, but there is always a good chance you and your wife will end up getting a divorce like that. a love marraige is a much better way to go, because you love the one you are with, and are that much more likely to stay with them, rather than get a divorce
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
I will definitely prefer love marriage, for marriage is a lifetime comittment. We have to be sure with our partner, if were compatible and happy with each other. Marriage is to build our own family, we have to make decision with ourself because were not young anymore, we must know whats the best for us. And not just depends on whats our parents opinion. We must decide on our own for once.
• India
5 Jan 07
For me, marraige is about spending your life with someone you love the most. Who you can look up to, who u respect, have faith in and forgo your own desires for. These feelings can take time to develop when you are made to meet a stranger by your parents and eventually take marraige vows. But, marrying someone who u know for the last couples of years, whose vice and virtues are already known to you, who knows how to make you smile and how to wipe your tears.... is the person worth marrying... So I prefer love to arranged...
• India
6 Jan 07
i must tell you it is not a question of choice entirely... for e.g. a person may be wanting to hav a love marr.. but he may remain bachelor for the simple reason that he has not found his true lov! i prefer both.. CONVERT YOUR ARRANGED TO LOVE! sounds great is nt... what i belive is that evrythin should go with the consent of both families.. to which both belong... in fact this conversion is more enjoyable than ONLY LOVE marriage
@fliffy555 (1044)
5 Jan 07
Love Marriage all the way!! how do even know in an arranged marriage if the 2 people are going to like each other let alone love each other? although love marriages can have their problems as people fall in and out of love.... its better to love and lost then to have never loved and marry someone you may detest from day 1
• India
5 Jan 07
arranged marriage...... since all the major decisions in my life are taken by my parents
@jsan0147 (186)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
love marriage