One line responses
By ljcapps
@ljcapps (1925)
United States
January 5, 2007 3:31am CST
I have been getting rather annoyed by the one line responses I have been getting as of late. I post a comment and all I ever see in return is a generic "Thanks for responding." That's it nothing more. Do these people that mave exhorbant ratings think that is a good response? I am looking for discussions with multiple responses. I am not looking to just up my earnings but to actually get into some deeper and involved discussions. Does this annoy anyone else? Those of you that are going to respond with yes or no, please DON"T RESPOND!
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46 responses
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I agree it is very aggravating. Actually the quidelines page of Mylot say not to respond to each and every reponse to a topic with just a thank you. It also says to give more then a one word response when responding. Now for my own discussions I may not respond to each and every poster but when I do respond it's to actually comment on what they said and either ask them to explain more, defend what I stated (especially if they posted in disagreement of it) or to agree with them. I always rate responders no matter what.
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@shywolf (4514)
• United States
5 Jan 07
Oh, wow. I guess that I need to read the guidelines over - I hadn't realized that one wasn't supposed to reply to every response with just a thank you. Sometimes it's just hard to think of things to say back, depending on what the person has written. I know that in one or two of the topics that I've started, people have pretty much given me one-line replies, and it's hard to know what to say back other than thank you and maybe one other sentence. I really am quite a wordy person who isn't that excited about just saying 'thank you' back, but I like to be polite. I am sorry if I have offended anyone by just saying thank you at times. I will endeavour to do a bit better! ^_^
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
6 Jan 07
Once you are on mylot more you will find out. you just can't reply to everyone, just like Mylot said just rate. I do reply to my friends though,or if someone took the time to explain in a discussion.
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
Do people not read the giudelines page? I would rather know what is and isn't expected/allowed on a posting forum like this one than log on one day to find out that I have had some infraction that has made my earnings of even my entire profile disappear. With the expansiveness of the english language there is almost always some way of commenting to a response with more than just thank you. I understand being polite but in a setting such as mylot, in my opinion, a one line response is rude. It doesn't take that long to think of something else to say on a subject to keep the conversation rolling. If all I can think of to say is thank you I just won't respond. (that doesn't happen often)
@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
5 Jan 07
It annoys me most of the time but not all the time. Because whenever I'm in a hurry and respond then I do it too so I can't blame anyone else of doing this. But I think that one should respond properly in order to keep the discussion alive and that people get the most out of it.
I try to respond with the right answers not just to increase my earnings as you can see from my (98) replies I have recently joined myLot but believe I'm really enjoying all the discussions that people start here.
I'm also sorry that you get those one-line responses but try to look from other people's angles maybe they're in a hurry, would like to be apart of the discussion or like you said just want to earn :) who knows.
@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
5 Jan 07
First I will say thank you. But who would I be helping other than myself by leaving this response at "thank you for responding"? I would presume that we would be compensated more for starting a string of conversations, than we would if all anyone ever got was one liners. Also if someone is in such a hurry to leave a one liner, I would think they have better things to do than try to crank up their rating on a website. I guess my main problem is with people whose discussions get responses and all the have for a response is thank you.
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
6 Jan 07
really, you don't half to response you just rate the person. what if you had over 1000. replys are you going to sit there and respond to them all? no you just rate them, saves time too.
@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
True, I haven't replied to every post here. But How would you feel if you posted an open-ended response to a discussion and all you got was a thank you? I have read every one of these posts, and rated them. I just feel that if you are going to resopnd make it something worth reading.
@Junig1 (300)
• Barbados
5 Jan 07
I do understand your annoyance but the truth is most people just want to increase their earnings, as such there is often no intent to 'discuss' anything. I have had a few topics glossed over with simple responses also. Anyway, I am sure you will have good responses from time to time so enjoy them when they do come:-)
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I try to enjoy them, it is just that they come so few and far between. I have certain people that if they respond to my posts I know that their responses will more than likely lead into a good discussion. On increasing their earnings, quality responses should earn more money than one liners. I am hoping that in time the designers of my lot will find a way or eliminating the junk responses and responders.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I have been here long enough I guess that I do not let it get to me. I try to get back to all my discussions and well sometimes I do say just thanks for the response but then again the answers I get from some of the discussions I have started really do give me anything to work with so I figured thanks for the response is better than nothing. Don't let it get to you. Build your friend list and work with people that you have things in common with or someone that you figure will have a good discussion with you.
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I have been trying, and please disreguard the comment in the response above yours, I am really not that cynical of a guy. It is just that I specifically asked for decent responses. I really don't mind seeing the occasional thank you. As long as there are other responses that have comments that a) pertain to the discussion and B)there is something other than thank you
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
6 Jan 07
Sometimes a "thank you" is all it takes, other times we have more things to say. I think it all depends on the situation.
Take my discussion on bravery, that I started. I want to aknowledge everyone, and I've only gotten great responses, but I have more to say to some than to others, simply because of the nature of their responses. It's NOT personal!
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
With me it is just the opposite. I feel it is a waste of time and effort to put in just a thank you. If I feel the need to respond I should have something to say. Some people feel thank you is something to say. The point I am trying to get across is about those people who use only that same response. When I say thank you I mean it. When that is all you see for comments posted to responses the sincerity of thanking someone is lost.
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
But your comments to people SHOULD be personal. We are her if for nothing else to make friends(at least I am). I like seeing that someone has something to say about my response. I feel like I am being brushed off when some one just leaves a comment or response at thank you.
@fluffleshark (810)
• Ireland
6 Jan 07
But why should you write a personal comment to each person who replies to you when you have nothing 'personal' to add to their response, but would like to acknowledge that you have read their response and appreciate their having taken the time to reply? If you say 'thank you' and genuinely mean it, is that not 'personal'? I LIKE to say thank you to people. Must I stop doing this just because I have nothing in depth to say about their response? I personally feel brushed off when the original poster leaves NO comment to my response!
@vinod_sailes (214)
• India
6 Jan 07
Am I talking to that big boy or the tiny tot shown in the photo ? Anyway, let the big boy read me !
Responses, in my view will depend mostly on the type of subject that you are focussing on for the readers to reply. If you give abstract subjects as in the present case, you suerly will have to satisfy yourself with short replies. If you take some politics, religious or such interesting topics, I feel you may get thunder of a response. Anyway, what is the name of that little tiny tot beside you ?
@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
Yes this is the "Big Boy" in the photo, The tiny tot has a little problem with reading ang typing. Even with the abstract discussion topics I can still give a lengthy reply. Now I am not lookin gto get a book as a response. but it is nice to see that people will take the time to actually try to start a conversation. I would say even on this absrtact topic I got a thunder of a response. I am not much into politics so don't expect to see any polotical discussions coming from me. Religion gets interesting, I happen to be apart from the norm here in the U.S. Lastly I am very protective of my son, I don't know you yet. There is no reason for me to tell you his name. If you want something to refer to him by call him "Bugg".
@ScarletAlston (2693)
• United States
6 Jan 07
it annoys me too...I don't post thank yous when I get responses to my discussions, I just go and respond to a few of their discussions...I'll tell you what really bothers me though..the people who post in discussions and have no idea what the topic is or what its about..they say something like "what is ____" or "no I don't do that"..those really piss me off..
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I would consider those falling in under one liners. Although I can understand the "What is ____?" questions. How else will someone learn what something is if they don't ask. Would you know what I was talking about if I told you " I had to complete two A3s today while still finalizing my processes." No and the only way you would find out is asking.
@honeybfly83 (1021)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I try to respond with more than just thanks for your response but it gets hard to keep up with you discussion when you start getting tons of responses.
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
Honestly this is the first discussion I have posted that has received more than a dozen or so responses. Yes it is hard to keep up with all of the responses but I would rather not get a reply than to get just a thanks. Being polite and telling people thank you is one thing but I have seen people who comment on every response with nothing but "Thanks for responding". While I appreciate the kindness I am looking for more than that.
@vani24 (783)
• India
5 Jan 07
See if someone is responding back to you by yes or no ....it doesnt mean that they are not getting involved in the discussions deeper.It means that they have understood what all is there in your discussion.
If you want to really want to get in a deeper discussion then it totally depends on you how you present yourself.
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
True presentation does effect the responses that one would receive but, it is not hard to expand on why you chose yes or no when a question is presented that requires such an answer. If I were to ask you if you liked calimari, you could answer just yes or no. except that is not what mylot is here for. How long would it take you to give a reason why you do or don't like it?
@bugbaby (1787)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 07
I totally agree with you.
I joined mylot because I am interesting to make conversation with other peoples here.
and I find out some information here and maybe I will get a good news from here.
I may not response to every poster if that discussion not interesting for me. the point is I trying to get earning and information from my lot.
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I am not really doing this for the earning. Yes it is an added benefit, but I joined to just talk to people. Strange thought just occurred, completely off the subject, Do you know what a HAMM radio is? If you do ever think of the similarities between a HAMM radio and discussion forums like this one?
Sorry random thought.
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
5 Jan 07
yes I understand what you are saying by people responding with only one line no I do not think it is a good response at all maybe these people cannot think enough to put any good response to your discussion, and I agree with what you are saying here.
@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
If someone is here on mylot I would think they would be intelligent enough to have an opinion on anything. If they don't already have an opinion then a few seconds to dwell on the topic at hand will generate an opinion. I like to think that everyone here on mylot has the ability to think for themselves and therefore will have or create their own opinions.
@ukchriss (2097)
•
6 Jan 07
I do rate all posts where the author has taken time to write a decent reply ... and I do always award a 'best response'
mylot does say that this is a discussion site … where folks can debate and discuss topics … however it's been set up to only reward (pay) the first post a person makes in any discussion…
so there is no incentive for anyone to continue the discussion past the first post ... which is a bit sad really as I would like to go back and get a bit deeper into some discussions but I know no one else will be making further replies if they are not getting paid for doing so…
I'm afraid I haven't been over eager in writeing more than a Thankyou to each and every poster for their posting either … but I do try to leave a thankyou for every reply even if it means going back through a few days postings.
as again we dont get paid for going back and doing this.
but to be honest there are so many discussions which i now have to go back and thank, there are simply just not enough hours in my day… so what am I to do - write more than a thankyou and not get paid ot reply to other people and earn a few $$ ?
@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
Is It all about earnings? Whatever happened to Chatting or getting into a discussion for the sake of having fun? That is all I am seeing is If I respond with longer replies I don't earn anything. It takes time to type out a long response. What ever money I do get paid is just going to get spent on ebay. I am just here to have fun.
@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
Which ones are you talking about? I have seen a couple that have irked me, but I would have to say that the one liners get under my skin the most. How can a conversation stay on the same subject with an answer like you're right, That's true, or yes and no. These responses kill the conversation right there.
@muathasim (49)
• India
5 Jan 07
ya like you said i also prefer response with detailed discussion.. i addition to making money we enjoy the onversation really .. ifferent continent contries can argue express and applaud..
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
That was one of the reasons I joined up here at mylot. To get a feel for opinions worldwide. To see how people in countries other than my own respond. I think it is great that international boiundries have been crossed to bring us together. Twenty years ago there would be no chance of two people, like you and me, to have a conversation like we are.
@lilttownmommie (1473)
• United States
6 Jan 07
it does annoy me, but with more time here you will find the deeper conversations and better discussions, you wont simply find them over night. Give Mylot more time, believe me, had you joined 2 months ago you would have been disgusted at all the spam with single word answers and people just trying to get higher responses with stupid topics, and the only comments to responses if any were "thanks" just give it more time, and look for some of the good discussions, it helps to add people to your friends who have good discussions and to add your interests that way you can find topics that interest you.
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@brokentia (10389)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I see nothing wrong with wanting more of a response or comment. I have had many of conversations in my discussions and that is because I enjoy it too. Sometimes people will come back again...it makes it more fun. I know I do not always get to go back to a discussion I responded to because it gets lost in the shuffle. I wish myLot had a way that a user could flag a discussion so I would get an email and link to a discussion I flaged. Then, I would know if a person commented to my response.
Hey, if it helps...if you ever see my response and you post a comment on mine...besides the thanks for sharing/response...feel free to send me a message to let me know. :)
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I will send you the message when I post a new comment to our discussions. I agree wholly with you on there being a way to flag certain discussions, although the good thing is that there is a link to see all of the discussions thaat you have responded to. Although I wish that link would recognize the profile and locate your particular response. That would be a lot easier than trying to find your response in hundreds of others
@bindishah (2062)
• India
6 Jan 07
I am fairly ne won Mylot so I do take my time reading posts and responding. I feel genuinely interested reading other poeple's views. But for people who've been around a long time (like say they have a rating of 1000) - I think they've answered way too many posts to really care about individual responses. Maybe they should then just stick to responding to posts that interest them and they can write more than a few words.
@artanis50 (44)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I agree with you - although I am new too so nobody please tell me how I have no right to have an opinion on this because I'm new.
Anyway, I partly joined this website to get involved in some interesting conversations but have been finding it hard to do so. Even some of the people who respond with more than just "thanks" are sometimes rude and just trying to get to you.
So far I've only been involved in one discussion that has actually been more like a debate even though it has been short it has been interesting.
Ljcapps - if you are interested in really getting down to it and having some good discussions, post something and I'd be happy to get into it with you (as long as I have an opinion on it!) HA HA
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
6 Jan 07
Your opinions would be more than welcome. I think the newer people here on mylot provide new insights on older discussions. And ANYONE who thinks just because someone is new here their opinions don't carry as much clout I say shove off and would rather have a discussion with myself.. With the rude people I normally let their ignorance get the best of them and ignore them. Although some people say just the right thing to get me riled, then look out the opinions will start flying, and at that point I don't care if feelings get hurt
@usman400 (1587)
• Pakistan
6 Jan 07
This is not a single line reply, this spans over two nice lines what do say if i say just "yes" ;) lolz well no hard feelings man, every buddy here is for earn, it is not harmfull that u get one line responses, after all its adding ur points ! May be someone just agrees with all you hae written in the topic itself, and he/she thoughts that there is no need to xtend things. And hahahah wake up man (@ adding comment) its not responsibility of the topic starter, what things happening here are alright, no need to shout at that
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