ATTENTION.......will u still love him/her if u find out he cheat on you

i dont think i would get back together if i found out that my partner had been cheating on me. its just one of those things that i am quite touchy on. i do not like having my trust broken and this is obviously a big example of it. i do however think that overtime things could change and with work, and a change of person, i think someone could win me back eventually. khris

When my boyfriend cheated on me, I did dump him, but that didn't stop me from loving him. The reason I dumped him was the fact that all the trust was broken. Thats where the fine line between love and trust can get merky

Its hard but love will make you do some crazy things.I probably will forgive him

if someone cheated on you doesn't mean you stop loving them. now do you want to continue the relationship is a different question. i don't think you can have a relationship without trust. i would no longer trust that person so i could not be with them any longer. does that mean i don't love them, no just don't trust them. not the same.

I would talk to him before making any decision. I would like to know why he did this and how many times. Maybe I would give him another chance maybe not. We never really know how we gonna react to a situation until it happen to us.

It depends on how bad the couple wants to stay together. I feel every couple is different. Some couples can work through it and other's can not. My god-parents went through this situation early on in their marriage. She cheated on him, they worked it out, went to counseling and have now been married happily for 30 years with no more cheating. It just depends.

First I have to know how long she's doing it and why. If I find her reason is because she fall in love with somebody, then I'll guess there's nothing to talk much about. I might let her go, cause its hard to hold things that is already out of control. Then I start to move on.

I can answer that one.. This has happened to me. I was married for 8 years and we had 2 children together. I found out that he cheated on me with a family member that I was really close to, but I didnt find out they messed around until after their baby was born. yes, they had a baby.. which was really hard because this family member was my best friend and we grew up together. I didnt even have a clue they were messing around. I was trying to have a baby at the time myself with no luck.. well as soon as I found out he and this girl had a baby, I packed one trashbag full of clothes for me and my 2 sons and we left and never came back again. I filed for divorce and went to a shelter. it took me about a month but I finally got my own place and now almost 3 yrs later it was the best move I ever made.. but still my life isnt the way it used to be.. it tore my family apart and quite a few people blame me for what has happened. I dont have anyone in my family who talks to me except for my mom. so this really destroyed alot for me.. but I am glad to be away from my ex. I feel like if they cheat they dont deserve you. he is a low down piece of dirt who doesnt even deserve to have my kids in his life.. so from a personal experience, no, I would not still love them. because if they loved me that wouldnt have happened..

Yes, I am a forgiving person but if he is a habitual cheater then we would have to cut all ties that binds. I can't be with a liar and cheater. He would lost all respect from me by doing all that. No one is perfect though. I would like to know what we can do to resolve the issue that made him want to step out of our relationship in the first place.