should i accept her????????/

I can tell you one thing, you never accept her, she can not stop it after your marriege also. if once girls tasted, she can not forget that entire life. So better to give a date for her and make it jolly.

Yes i think you should accept her as she has honestly accepted that she had relations with someone else but now she dont have anything like that, so you should accept her as you wont get such a honest partner in your life.

If the relationship was over then why the hassle, it is the present that matters not the past. If you have faith in her then you should accept her.

i think depend on you cause of she have the relationship with her brother inlaw ,if she did not do the relation as like husband wife,you can accepted her to be your wife

i have a little lindian in me.but anyway thats not the point.she is ur sister.u should love her nomatter what.iknow u may be real big on ur religion but ur sister should be more important.she is blood.she is something that can never be replaced.Love is a very powerful thing.People can not help but fall in love with someone.even if she tried as hard as she could she wouldnt be able to stop herself.u cant help how u feel.u cant make urself hate someone and u cant make urself love someone either.so what if she has only known the guy for 5months all that should matter is that she is in love and he makes her happy.maybe she ran away cause she was worried about what u and the rest of the family would think.things change.thw world and people change.trust ur sister and love her.be happy for her.hope everything works out.

tell us the date of ur marriage....

if you love her then you must accept her. but if you dont then you may leave her

yes you should if you really love her.

Hey man u should accept her only in a condition if you would be able to forget all that happen in her past.... otherwise no mean to accept her and always make her realise that you have done a great favour for her by marry her... only this can make your life happy. so be honest to yourself before concluding any decision..

seems like the girl is more confused than u...dont marry her.

For heaven sake, make this decision of you own buddy! don't listen to other people opinions on this. Because, once u have made the decion then u will be in a point of no return!At the same time, please do some basic test on her to see if she is really crazy about you or not....Never and never regret your relationship once you have made!

she's a little bit confusing...maybe you should reconcider about marrying her..Even though she alresady told you yhe truth,this can be happen again in the future..

no u donot accept bcoz if again she get an any idea of his brother on law u will be again confused so plz donot accept such that u will again confused confused

Dont marry her

If what the first person said as a response in this discussion is true, they you are lieing just to get responses and that is really sad. In the end though if you are telling the truth, no way in the world should you marry her, she is a cheater (but then are you also based on the response the one person gave on here)

can you accept her thats the question,she have been truthfull to you she did what was right know its your turn talk to here and tell that you find it difficult if she loves you then she should help you get over it and same for you if your love is real then you will get over

Since she has been truthful to you and told you about her relationship in the past. Her honesty goes to show that she is being sincere with you and you should accept here. I am sure that you yourself also have skeletons in your closet, so you should realize how much courage it takes for a girl to admit her faults and try to make a fresh start. In my opinion you should accept her and be honest with her as well since that is what she is doing with you right from the start. Best of luck

if she says tht her relation with him is over and u think she is reliable, then go marrry her

I say if u stil love her...then her relationship wid her broter in law shud not be a problem...n becoz she herself told u about the relationship..i think u shud try to maintain ur closeness wid her for some time n see if u r comfortable...if u feel OK then marry her otherwise tell her bye..thts all i wud do if i were u..

Believe her words and marry her.. if you doubt on her words, that will lead some other problem in the married life.. so believe her words and accept her for a happy life..