When you give are you looking for something back?
By 34momma
@34momma (13882)
United States
23 responses
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
5 Jan 07
When I give a gift it is because I want to give a gift, not because I want to or expect to receive something in return. Gifts aren't like money, something we exchange for goods and servies, gifts are like volunteer work, something we do because we WANT TO!
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@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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5 Jan 07
No, its a joy to be able to share your wealth with someone or people that you care about, you should do it because you want to and it brings you joy not to do it because of what you may recieve in return, that is no fun that way and i believe that you wont get no pride with that either
@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
25 Jan 07
I would prefer to give freely. I have always struggled with accepting gifts and never feel my gift is better than the other person's so I would much prefer to give than get.
It is very selfish of my, I know, but I am working on the accepting thing, it's just tough for some reason.
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@brihanna (381)
• United States
26 Jan 07
I would say, most times I give freely, expecting nothing in return. However, I also believe in "do unto others as you would have done unto you", so I also believe that if I give, then others should give.
This comes into play in situations like....babysitting for family or friends. I help you, you help me. Family chores. I will cook, you will clean. Borrowing from nieghbors. You can borrow my chain saw, can I borrow your extension ladder.
I guess it is unspoken, I do not get mad if they don't offer, or respond. But it makes things nicer if they do.
@SunlightSwoon (1060)
• United States
6 Jan 07
No,I don't look for something in return, however because
of the world we live in, sometimes I have that nagging little
voice in the background, that cautions me and warns me that
I should always be careful about the choices I make...SS
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@marissaj07 (402)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I don't usually expect anything back unless the person wants to give me something. All in All, I like to help out people in times of needs.
@jenbatres (799)
• United States
6 Jan 07
When I give, I don't expect anyhting back. I give a gift because I want to. Even for holidays, I don't expect anything in return.
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@nawab_islam (145)
• India
5 Jan 07
naa.....i dont follow give and take policy....but if the other party is willing to give something then i dont mind accepting it from him/her. i am always ready to help others to the highest extent. if i cant help i straignt away say no to them....sometimes it depends upon my mood also. if i am tired i straight away say no......
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@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
6 Jan 07
yes,if i give for my willing,i will never look for back.
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@iheartducks (343)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I don't expect anything back when I give someone something.
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@annieroos (1845)
• United States
1 Feb 07
No i don't ever expect anything back because when i give or do something for someone its because i am doing it out of i believe the goodness of my heart.. I love giving and helping others it just makes me feel good so i would say that is what i get out of it.. it makes me feel good..
@ladyambi (80)
• United States
27 Jan 07
No, I don't expect anything back. I enjoy giving. To me, it's passing on the blessings. Sometimes being able to give makes people feel good. But one day recent I was thinking how i am always thinking of other people, and I began to feel that no one thinks of me or appreciate what I do. Still I just continue to do what I can and make someone's day.
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@purposedriven (842)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I never look for or expect anything back. Giving makes me feel good about myself. Knowing that I have helped someone out in any way, is good enough for me. I was always told that when you give...you receive blessings and when you are willing to give, you are truly blessed.
@hsiaochieh (29)
• Philippines
8 Jan 07
wen i give something to someone i dont expect something in return, it is better to give than to receive, i love giving anything to someone, personalized thing specially seeing them smiling, and i give something to them so thatif time comes we miss each other they can simply look at what i have give them and remember me as well as the memories we had