When you give are you looking for something back?

@34momma (13882)
United States
January 5, 2007 4:06pm CST
Or do you just give freely?
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23 responses
• Canada
5 Jan 07
When I give a gift it is because I want to give a gift, not because I want to or expect to receive something in return. Gifts aren't like money, something we exchange for goods and servies, gifts are like volunteer work, something we do because we WANT TO!
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
5 Jan 07
You have said it best!!!!
• United States
5 Jan 07
I totally agree!!!
5 Jan 07
No, its a joy to be able to share your wealth with someone or people that you care about, you should do it because you want to and it brings you joy not to do it because of what you may recieve in return, that is no fun that way and i believe that you wont get no pride with that either
@34momma (13882)
• United States
5 Jan 07
that is a great way to look at it thanks for the insight
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@mikaghi (388)
• United States
30 Jan 07
i give freely without expecting anything back. i think it is an honor to be able to help/serve people so expecting anything in return is never my intention.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
31 Jan 07
you are right on with this great answer! thank you very much for your response
@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
25 Jan 07
I would prefer to give freely. I have always struggled with accepting gifts and never feel my gift is better than the other person's so I would much prefer to give than get. It is very selfish of my, I know, but I am working on the accepting thing, it's just tough for some reason.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
25 Jan 07
just remember this, when someone gives you something, it is to make them feel good too. so look at it as doing something for them although they are doing something for you.
@JJOD2007 (160)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
I give freely. You cannot feel the true essence of giving if you didn't give it freely. As the common saying goes "its better to give than to recieve."
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
26 Jan 07
you are must right! great comment! thanks
@brihanna (381)
• United States
26 Jan 07
I would say, most times I give freely, expecting nothing in return. However, I also believe in "do unto others as you would have done unto you", so I also believe that if I give, then others should give. This comes into play in situations like....babysitting for family or friends. I help you, you help me. Family chores. I will cook, you will clean. Borrowing from nieghbors. You can borrow my chain saw, can I borrow your extension ladder. I guess it is unspoken, I do not get mad if they don't offer, or respond. But it makes things nicer if they do.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
26 Jan 07
ok i hear ya on that one. i feel like that when it comes to doing favors for friends and family.
• United States
6 Jan 07
No,I don't look for something in return, however because of the world we live in, sometimes I have that nagging little voice in the background, that cautions me and warns me that I should always be careful about the choices I make...SS
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
8 Jan 07
that is The Lord talking to you and please make sure that you listen. just because you have it doesn't mean you have to give it away. and that voice you hear is the Lord. always listen.
• United States
5 Jan 07
I don't usually expect anything back unless the person wants to give me something. All in All, I like to help out people in times of needs.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
5 Jan 07
you go girl, that is how people should be
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@jenbatres (799)
• United States
6 Jan 07
When I give, I don't expect anyhting back. I give a gift because I want to. Even for holidays, I don't expect anything in return.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
8 Jan 07
that is the best way to be. good for you
• India
5 Jan 07
naa.....i dont follow give and take policy....but if the other party is willing to give something then i dont mind accepting it from him/her. i am always ready to help others to the highest extent. if i cant help i straignt away say no to them....sometimes it depends upon my mood also. if i am tired i straight away say no......
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Jan 07
lol
@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
6 Jan 07
yes,if i give for my willing,i will never look for back.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Jan 07
um ok
@cuterose (1698)
• India
6 Jan 07
no. i do not expect anything. i used to give watever i can give. i've always been a giver in my life. my police in life is not to have any kind of expectations. then u wont have any disappointment.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
8 Jan 07
it is good to be a giver. just make sure you are giving to the right people
• United States
5 Jan 07
I don't expect anything back when I give someone something.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
5 Jan 07
nor do i, and it is the only way to be
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@baby88 (696)
• Singapore
27 Jan 07
no of course! when we give we never never expect something back, that's my mum always tell me. we hv to give it freely.
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@annieroos (1845)
• United States
1 Feb 07
No i don't ever expect anything back because when i give or do something for someone its because i am doing it out of i believe the goodness of my heart.. I love giving and helping others it just makes me feel good so i would say that is what i get out of it.. it makes me feel good..
@ladyambi (80)
• United States
27 Jan 07
No, I don't expect anything back. I enjoy giving. To me, it's passing on the blessings. Sometimes being able to give makes people feel good. But one day recent I was thinking how i am always thinking of other people, and I began to feel that no one thinks of me or appreciate what I do. Still I just continue to do what I can and make someone's day.
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• United States
5 Jan 07
I never look for or expect anything back. Giving makes me feel good about myself. Knowing that I have helped someone out in any way, is good enough for me. I was always told that when you give...you receive blessings and when you are willing to give, you are truly blessed.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
5 Jan 07
i am touched by all these giving people here today. thank your for being giving
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Jan 07
you are welcome, make sure you look for more interesting topics from me
• United States
5 Jan 07
Thank you for the discussion!
• Philippines
8 Jan 07
wen i give something to someone i dont expect something in return, it is better to give than to receive, i love giving anything to someone, personalized thing specially seeing them smiling, and i give something to them so thatif time comes we miss each other they can simply look at what i have give them and remember me as well as the memories we had
@34momma (13882)
• United States
25 Jan 07
that is a nice thought, thanks for the response
@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
25 Jan 07
Yes but not to all things.I give love to my boyfriend and im expexting the same from him.And i am really loyal to him and expecting the same from him too.But when i give some help,i don't expect it back.
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@Kaldonya (277)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I get great joy out of giving, and doing things for other people. I love to see their smiles. It makes me feel good knowing that I was able to put a smile on someone's face or make their day.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
25 Jan 07
and isn't that what it is really all about. that very simple happy smile!