have you ever ruined a relationship because of being over possessiveness?

Once a person is over possesive, they remain so for ever. I don't like it if somebody keeps track of what I am doing. If I find out someone being over possesive about me, I would not be very happy everytime I see him and little by little I would end up my relationship with the person, no matter what type is the relationship

Actually I had been very possessive with my past ex bf. I guess the reason why we had broken up is because of that. I think you should given a realtionship a chance if such person willing to changed her attitude towards your relationship. Or if she agreed that you can meet halfway on it. Sometimes women tends to become possesive if they can feel that a guy's had done something like infidelity. I a possessive person a chance if you think that you loved her enough to accept what she really is, irregardless of her negative traits.

yes i did. because i only have a relationship the time i want it. and if a man does not accept my personal life...than he should go..wherever he wants. but not longer with me. some people...not only men, also women, need helb handling this.

i dont know how to answer this exactly. because possessive people are just that. they dont let you go anywhere or talk to anyone and make you leave your family. they think of themselves and nothing else. if you know they are possessive then i wouldnt get into a relationship like that. possessive people dont change.