Who would you choose?
By simplegal
@simplegal (123)
Philippines
January 6, 2007 5:22am CST
Will you choose a guy that you love and he loves you too but he is poor and you know that he cannot give the things you want? Or you will choose a guy that you don't love but sure he can give you everything because he is rich? Would you be happy to buy anything you want but spending your life with the wrong person?
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41 responses
@jdmill83 (28)
• United States
18 Jan 07
I would choose the poor one... which is what I did. To me money doesn't hold a chance when it comes to feelings of love. Too much money can also cause problems!
@AishwaryaJndhl (39)
• India
8 Jan 07
i'd choose the guy I love, irrespective of everything. tehre are no two ways about it.
@Aeihjei02 (44)
• Philippines
8 Jan 07
It's a wrong idea to choose the guy who are rich! You should choose the person you love! If you choose the man that you don't love but can give all you want you're selfish your just thinking about yourself. It's unfair on the guys part. You both will suffer in your relationship
@cyndhirella (549)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
I respect all those romantic people around.
If you would be practical enough, I opt not to choose love and go with the person whom I will be stable and secure. Love cannot feed a hungry stomach. If you have children, and all of them are in grief of hunger, would you say, "Its ok, your dad and I love each other, thats what matter most.".. I guess, we just have to be sensible in our decision in life. Love can be learned and earned, richness can't.
@twaambolee (260)
• Zambia
18 Jan 07
I would definately choose the poor one,who loves me and I love back.The money can be made while we're together.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
6 Jan 07
sorry, but i will choose someone whom i will be comfortable with (in terms of money) believe me or not, i have made a hard decision when i had to break up with an ex due to his having no work. and i had to think for myself that i can no longer trust him because he is not financially secured.
@dutchess67 (917)
• United States
7 Jan 07
There's no choice to be made. Hands down, the guy that I love, that loves me wins. Money may pay the bills, but it won't make you happy. Circumstances can be improved, but you cant make yourself love someone that you don't.
@arwenrey (315)
• Philippines
6 Jan 07
I would choose the guy I love as long as I am financially capable of living with him. But if we were both poor i don't think so, because later in life the financial problem that we had would have been worse and might end in separation. We know love is important in a relationship but up to what extent?
@bettyjoanne (32)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I would choose the guy that is poor. I would rather be with a person that i love and that loves me back.
@pebbles_cubbie (3789)
• United States
6 Jan 07
i choose the man i love and he loves me too. he doesnt have a lot of money and neither do i but we're starting out and we i know one day he can give me the material things that i want. but that doesnt matter to me. i know he loves me for me. i dont want someone that just wants me cause i look good and he dont feel a thing for me. i wouldnt be happy at all. i'm happier with the things i have right now and i'm happier with the man i love. i wouldnt want to waste my life with someone i couldnt care for.
@tuheen2013 (70)
• India
6 Jan 07
hey why should one depend on other ,though he is poor but he loves u ,if u also loves him do for him n make him rich ,after all senario have been change n both r earning so after sometime u will have love n money both or thing that u wants ...that the better way to live loving life than to go for rich who can give u everything but not love...
@table4three (126)
• Malaysia
6 Jan 07
considering im answering this if i am a woman, i would consider to take the guy with money because in this world today, money is everything. with money even we can build the love. trust me. want can you do without money. who said those people live in poor are happy family. they can't even give the basic necessity and when this happen, then the hates will build and then argue leads to seperation.Divorce.
@Deane_2005 (1644)
• Philippines
6 Jan 07
I will choose I guy who is poor rather than spending my life with a wrong guy and put my life in living hell.Material stuff are just good for awhile but it has no lasting effect.Choosing a poor person doesn't mean their's no room for improvement, right?, especially in economic aspect.