do you think age gaps in a relationship is a big deal??!!!

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Yes ur naive if you think your age gaps dont matter.Dey do, but so dol all the other differences in your circumstances and personalities. So, ignoring this issue or any issue, wont work! The more you insist that there arent any problems, the more probably suppressing your concerns for fear that they will sabotage the relationship. Both you and your partner need to honestly and directly face and discuss all the various problems that have or cud emerge around your age difference. Significant age differences between partners can cause serious problems in relationships.. The word "significant" is important here: If your partner is four or five yrs older or younger dan you, it wont make much of a difference.However. your partner is ten or more years older or younger than you, it can cause difficulties depending on your ages and other aspects of your personalities. I've found that age gaps mean less as both partners get older. Now, the good news: A relationship between two people of very different ages can work if both partners avoid falling into the patterns by being aware of them, communicating about their feelings and making agreements that help create an equal and respectful relationship.The more you have in common and the more committed you are to working on the relationship, the better your chances for survival!