Love and Like....What is most important.????

Let me start by answering your final question, which is no, I don't have people whom I love but don't like in my life. To my way of thinking, you cannot possibly have one without the other and succeed in a frienship or relationship. Loving and liking are different but both are needed to make a relationship last. We need to find the happy medium and balance it out.

I believe that you can love a person heart and soul, but dislike the things that they do. Take children for instance. I love my kids. They are my children. I do not like some of the things that they do. Just because a person does something that you don't agree with or dislike does not mean that you will stop loving them.

I used to accept the fact that most important thing in our lives is love. That we have to be surrounded but these peple only. After many hits that happened to me, I have to say that I now prefer to have people in my life that I really like and enjoy be with, instead of people that I love and they try to hurt me all the time.

You can like & love someone, you should never dislike someone,,just dislike what they do or say. NOT dislike the person. I love my family but dislike WHAT they do or say sometimes. but NEVER dislike them

I think you can like without love, but you can't love without like. Many people define "love" differently, depending on culture. But in my opinion, love is the next step above like. Both are important

I BELIEVE THAT ITS DIFFICULT TO CONVINCE EVERYONE. IN OTHER WORDS ITS IMPOSSIBLE. SO, TRY TO BE GUD TO EVERYONE SO THAT THEY MAY LIKE U.

U r rite...but dont dislike any buddy just give love to all...it is a natural thing dude...u can change any thing to ur good habbits if u like any one tell him or if u love him/her...then also tell him u can change ur likeness in love all depends on u !

I did before a long time ago, but that person isn't in my life anymore. I think also you can love people and not LIKE what they do or actions they take, but it doesn't necessarily mean you don't like them. I understand your point though, I do like some people, but I don't love them. I don't however, have people I love in my life and not like them currently.

Yes I would say my husband because he always stress me out with his sickness he can help it, he acts like he don't care sometime. and the stress me.

Everyone that is in my life I both love and like. I do not know anyone that I feel both for, whether it is family, friends or my girlfriend. I like everyone and love everyone. I think both loving and liking is very important in any relationship.

sometimes you like people but you don't love him, and sometimes in reverse. For me, love is important as your relationship going deeper you will learn how toi like him/her. Unlike, like their is no deeper emotion attach, and your relationship will easily fsde.

I know that it is possible to love someone very much and not like a lot of things _about_ them. I'm not sure if it is possible to truly love someone and not like them at all. You're so right in saying that we don't always choose who we love, though. The heart decides for us! *laugh* And we can't help but love our parents, no matter what. Sometimes my mother can be a very difficult person to get along with, but I love her with all of my heart.

i think first we should like someone to love them (if they our frnds or negibours or someone outside our family ). but in our family ,someone like our kids .if they are bad whith bad character we may not like them but love them through heart

Well, here's another take on that: I hate my mom but I love her, just the same. That's the thing with family, you don't always agree with what they do, what their opinions are; but you stick by them. Acceptance is important. Love first and then you'll see past the differences.

both are 2 different things but i like to love every one.

yes polly i can relate to your post in two ways i love someone i don`t want to be around at the present time and i have some one who i do not like but am around then a lot of the time

We can choose who we love, we also can choose who we like. The both of them count a lot and when you fall in love in can be the best thing in the world if it works out for you but if it doesn't then it will surely hurt, but we can choose more who we like, as it is not so deep the feeling, and we cannot force someone to like us no most of the people in my life I love them, and they love me, so I must be lucky in this way.

love is our heart calling to someone else... i feel that love is always the best option.... i have chosen love and although i dont always like my fella i do love him and that always takes priority... i forgive him for anything and we have a very strong relationship... so although we do not like each other 24/7 we do love each other and that is the best aphrodisiac anyone can ask for... being in love makes you feel great... liking people and people liking you makes you feel popular... to me they are not the same and love will always overrule like.

Wow...that is some deep thoughts. Yes, I definately have someone I love soooo much but can't stand at times. Unfortunately it's my oldest daughter who is almost 17. I love her so much and would do almost anything for her...however, she has a few problems with stealing, running away, etc.. She has been to jail twice. It has been such an uphill battle with her. I have had to do the tough love thing with her for the past couple years. It hurt and the pain was so intense having to do this. I have felt almost abused by her actions and I can't understand where this is coming from. Well she is finally starting to do better and will be getting out from her placement program next week. I have decided to start off with a clean slate. She seems to be doing better and her grades are awesome. I want to rekindle our relationship and grow close again.

You can love only what u like.