why do women fall for bad boys?
@aryangentleman (1122)
India
January 7, 2007 7:42am CST
Today I read an article in a news paper which I would like to mention here as its gives a very intresting analysis on Women who have relationship with some one who mentally or physically abuses her and still she keeps telling she loves him and unable to walk out of the relationship "Virgina based Relationship Coach Toni Coleman says a woman's self esteem and her pattern of relationship hitherto have a large role to play in her selection of a bad boy as a companion. According to her, if a woman feels good about herself, she chooses a mate who respects her and value her. A confident woman won't let a man undermine her self worth, which is exactly what a bad boys does! Psychiatrist Dr Harish Shetty agrees and adds; some Women enjoy abusive relationships as they've gone through abuse as kids,which has been unresolved. This leads to a behavioural pattern, where woman expects to be treated badly" WOW Phew! I have reason to invite you people to participate in this discussion as I have seen various post here where woman been badly treated or trust abused and then they still hanging on with the relationship. I always suspected there must be some thing but I could never put it in words and after reading this I think the analysis is not of the mark.
2 responses
@aryangentleman (1122)
• India
14 Feb 07
Well Yes I do too believe personally that some women do live at the edge and some kind of slavish tendency dominate them.
@maldita_me (281)
• Philippines
7 Jan 07
They might look bad on the outside but once known better they are sweet and nice person. There was once a song here that says, "My type of guy is slightly bad yet gentleman." Isn't that ironic?
@aryangentleman (1122)
• India
7 Jan 07
How one can be sweet and nice when he beats you, humiliate you, undermine you and crush the woman in you?