if you love some one.............

i dont have guts to tell her in firsts meet.so i will take time

I love my husband dearly. When we first started dating, oh about 8 years ago I knew I liked him a lot. Then after a couple of weeks later he was all I could think about and even had trouble sleeping because I could not get him off my mind. Then I knew I loved him. My husband had a hard time telling me that he loved me even though I knew he did he could not say it because he was scared. He had a hard break up with his girlfriend before me and was going to ask her to marry him. Then things got complicated and they broke up. It broke his heart. We were together for a few months before I told him that I loved him. I could tell that I scared him a little. He did not tell me that he loved me until we were together about 10 months. Now we are married, have two beautiful children and have been together for 8 years. Married 3 years. I would definately wait a little while so you won't scare her. But not too long so she won't be wondering if she is waisting her time thinking that you don't love her. Before you tell her, romance her and make her feel that you love her without even telling her. That is what my husband did with me and it worked out just fine! Good luck!