Do You Request Friends Or Let Them Request You?

@wmg2006 (5381)
United States
January 7, 2007 11:23am CST
I have never requested a friend in the past. I did a general discussion seeking friends in the beginning and started getting some request. I looked at my friends number and decided I would go through my discussions and anyone who responded would get a request. I think it is very crucial that we have many friends here in My Lot to build a good strong supportive community. So if you would like to join me just accept my freinds request and I will support your topics.
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@Lady_Vincy (1538)
• United States
8 Jan 07
I let them request me. I have never equested anybody. I don't mind having more friends though.
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@wmg2006 (5381)
• United States
8 Jan 07
To get more friends you need to start requesting them.
@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
8 Jan 07
I have never requested any. I always let them request me. I don't know why. Maybe I have a fear of rejection. lol
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@wmg2006 (5381)
• United States
8 Jan 07
HA! Maybe that is why I never requested them either. I am going to get over that now and start requesting. If you request a LOT at one time you will never know who rejected you. LOL
• India
8 Jan 07
well sometimes i request frenz and sometimes i get requests.
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• India
8 Jan 07
depends if i need something or some favour i request them otherwise they do...
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• India
8 Jan 07
It all depends on occassions.
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• India
8 Jan 07
that is good..but i usually go around requesting bcoz,u hav the pic of a chic and evry1 would want to choose u,that mite not be the same in evry 1s case
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• United States
8 Jan 07
I usually only add those I refer so therefore I add them. I have accepted a few though that tried to be my friend.
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• Indonesia
8 Jan 07
I WANNA BE YOUR FRIEND IF U REQUEST ME AS ONE
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• Philippines
8 Jan 07
when i was just starting mylot im the one who make request but after having 10 friends i dont make any invitation.. i just let them invite me... cause for me if i really like to be one of the frined of someone i will definitely always check there diacussion and see if i get anyinteresitng topics.
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• India
8 Jan 07
Yeh, i too agree with you. i too never requested a friend. But who ever wants help, just come to me, I will help you as I can.
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
8 Jan 07
Lately i have observed that some request me to be their friend and i accept it. Some also request are mostly in my country. As to responding, when i go to friends topic and i can relate to it I will join their discussion. sometimes i had only limited time so i havent got chance to respond to all of them. Usually when i log in i used to get caught with the top discussion so i have short time when browsing to the friends discussion.
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@mgr1987 (689)
• India
8 Jan 07
that sounds good.i agree with your idea.
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• United States
8 Jan 07
i've requested 2 or 3. because i read the discussions they've started or replied to and find that i have the same interests as they do. i have had 6 friend requests but i havent accepted all of them. because i didnt find i shared the same interests as they do. i will also support your topics as a friend and will get on your discussions and respond to them. thanks
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@berry9 (590)
• India
8 Jan 07
iv been here since one month. iv by now made two friends. i get replies frm them whenever i drop one message.
@forjosie (1544)
• Indonesia
8 Jan 07
I request friend on the discussion, Sometime they ask me. Feel great if we had more friend than other...:)
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@tildy12 (760)
• United States
8 Jan 07
I request and accept friends request only from people that start sensible and serious discussions.
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@mughny (48)
• Indonesia
8 Jan 07
i let my friend added me :D
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@usman400 (1587)
• Pakistan
8 Jan 07
I have just once here on mylot, I think making friends here is not a good idea, as we have to spent more time in earning points !
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• Egypt
8 Jan 07
I only wait my friend's request.I'am feeling not good when I request a friend. Anyway good idea
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@ameenmaj (90)
• India
8 Jan 07
i do handle it in both ways i do request friends as well as accept requests
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