How long does it take?

I think I would atleast wait to hear his reason , is he in hasoital ,or jail or maybe their in more trouble than you think I wish the best

"Why would he not talk to her?" I guess only your friend's boyfriend can give exact answers. No one else beside him can state the true reasons behind his behaviour. Interference from outsiders in a relationship does not help but if a couple is strong, they can overcome most difficulties.

I would be worried myself. Is there any way your friend could try and contact him? I am not sure why he would be gone so long. Perhaps he just needs time to think...or it could be something else. In any case you need to know what is going on? Keep us posted.

Does she know where he is? Even if her mom made him mad you think that they would be able to talk about it unless he has tried in the past and it got him no where. Our they also his kids? Maybe he just went to cool off and had a problem that he needed to work out within himself. Maybe he was depressed and didn't want anybody to know. Theres to much there to just make an assumption without knowing what he his thinking or why he did it. Give him sometime maybe he will come around

I am glad I read through all the posts before I add my two cents. I would be concerned about this relationship for many reasons. First of all, why would he leave for 4 days with no contact before he finally calls. Ok, so he has in-law issues. Great! Now we know what the problem is. But 4 days is a long time to just disappear without contact. That tells me that he is a runner. Which means that communication is an issue between them. And when he gets upset, he is going to run. I get the whole too much interference from the mother-in-law deal... but that can be fixed. He should have been talking to her about that from the first time "mom" made him feel uncomfortable. But mom does not live there. So why did he run? I think there is more going on then whats been said in the discussion, and if she thinks this is all that is going on, then she will sure be surprised later. And if he is married to her NOTHING negates him leaving for 4 days without contact that she was not made aware of before hand. He could have just called and said "I am staying here for a few days, I got something on my mind and I need to think on it before I talk to you about it, but will come home soon" or something just to let her know he is ok or something! Therefore, I think it is more than just the mom-in-law issue

I think it's time to call the police. If someone I care about went missing for that long I would have called the police by now. Have you/she gone to the mothers house and spoke to her?

If he doesn't have the courage to tell her something is wrong, she should consider that he isn't a good person to be in a long-term relationship with. Communication is an important factor in a relationship. If he cannot communicate with her that is a huge problem. It is obvious to me that he is immature in the part that he left, said he would return shortly and hasn't yet, with no call to let her know what is going on. What a child. She needs to get on with her life and find someone that truly will be a good fit.

i think dont be puzzled i think he is in some trouble.u said that they have been together for 2 years so i dont think he left her.he must be in some problems thats why he cant contact her.i hope he will call her soon or contact her soon.dont worry

Maybe is in not in the right state of mind, I saw a show once where a man just up and left. Issues with the mother-in-law can be stressful on the relationship. I would give him a week.

Why dont you find out why? initiate communication, visit the guy both of you, Talk to the mom. How did you know the guy is out of his senses, without you knowing the real reason of his silence and disappearance. The hope is always there specially if ou alk about the future, good communicatin is two ways, did your riend initated communication already? It is alright to get puzzled, you are given the chance to solve it. Do you think I read the entire thing, before posting in here, Have a life both ouf you! enjoy solving your puzzles in life, they make the essence of existence.

I don't know if the person loves your friend truly and told him her that he'll come in 3 hours of time then he should have sense that the girl is waiting for her and must be worried about him if he doesn't care this much also then he is not the person of good values and morals.

I don't see any reason for the reaction! Maybe he is faceing troubles with the family! Did she try to call him?

I think if he really cares he will comes back to his sense when he think and thought of her and the good times they use to share together

I know it.....he'll come to his senses....hopefully

One of the biggest problems with relationships is the difficulty in understanding the other's problems. Just dont make any important decisions in this time.. in a few days everything will be as it was ... best of luck