how do i know if hes cheating on me?

United States
January 7, 2007 7:14pm CST
is he cheating? How do I know
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Shar11
@Shar11 (419)
• United States
8 Jan 07
I think a lot of the time if we have a gut feeling something is going on we are probably right.. But..if youve had past relationships where you have been cheated on and your trust in general is very low, you have to consider if you are just feeling afraid... I have been cheated on..and I can say that when it happened I did have a feeling it was happening...but also I have to say because of that painful experience it was hard for me to not believe that "all guys cheat" so I suspected it or expected it with many I dated after that... I really had to work on that and am now in a trusting relationship... Not sure what your situation is so I tried to address both sides of this... good luck... Shary
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revellanotvanella
@revellanotvanella (4033)
• United States
5 Mar 08
What if your only in your first ever serious, long term relationship and no experienced being cheated on, and I have kids? From reading alot of books and pschological things I suspect I just look for inconsistencies but still, my bf is the loner type, he doesnt run off in the middle of the night with no excuse, he speaks Turkish. I can be pretty skeptical and think most men will stray if given the opportunity. I think its a 'Conditions Right' thing. Im confident I would know because I grew up around alot of that drama but so far so good.
simplyman2006
@simplyman2006 (1706)
• India
8 Mar 08
hey how u can say this about ur husband some times we think wrong about our partners. and then they start cheating us u ahould only do one thing that is put ur interesnt on him and try to knew more and more about him.