Beware! Internet lovers and chatters

@berry9 (590)
India
January 8, 2007 12:12am CST
Internet affair or relationship can be very dangerous.I have person sitting beside me using my system at my work place.he used to chat with a girl and one fine day he proposed her.the girl in few days said yes too which made me shocked.this guy told her that he owns a granite factory and exports and imports HERE THE BOTTOM LINE IS ""THIS GUY IS A PUNE IN OUR OFFICE""he made up such stories to her and pretends to act like very busy when she calls.i used to pity the girl. This guy is poorly educated even.the poor girl beleives everything he says and not just him.there are many guys out there who even pretend like girls and make other guys clowns. Anyways if you would still go with this fooling,then who can help//
11 responses
@runsgame (2031)
• India
10 Jan 07
Thanks god U got him at the right time. otherwise., one wonderful gal's life might hav gone miserable and collapsed. I too agree, that internet users should be very careful , particularly email , most of the persons after seeing their email does not log out the site. wht will happen if iother person sits , he can bale to see the personal mail account. CARE....... needed by all
@shooie (4984)
• United States
12 Jan 07
thing is has anyone told the woman he has and is lying to her?
@berry9 (590)
• India
12 Jan 07
i could hardly do anything.i dont even know who the girl is.if alone i could get to talk to her,i could have.
@vani24 (783)
• India
9 Jan 07
What you said is correct...Many people do that...One cant really trust anyone in making internet friends wholly...
@shooie (4984)
• United States
12 Jan 07
I agree is extremely risky but you can not deny that it can happen
@berry9 (590)
• India
10 Jan 07
I think friendship is ok. but love is extremely risky.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Yes things like this can happen. But it's not always the case and I am proof. I met my husband on the internet and this Aughust we have been married 8 years. We knew each other a couple years online were just friends. Yes beware but also don't run from it.
@berry9 (590)
• India
8 Jan 07
exceptions are not examples
@ilunice (946)
• Netherlands
10 Jan 07
in every bad situations, exceptions are always there. Be optimistic always.
@raj0019 (2623)
• Argentina
8 Jan 07
I have been in this field from last 6 years, and have learned to identify person in front of me correctly. In early days i was used to be fooled. but not now, we all learn something from our past experience, and can stay away from such fake identities on internet.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
12 Jan 07
All experiences on the internet are bad.
@berry9 (590)
• India
9 Jan 07
Have you ever had such an experience?
• India
8 Jan 07
yeah i totally agree .internet relationship can be dangerous and should be avoided.
@berry9 (590)
• India
8 Jan 07
really true.when im seeing it with my own eyes. i really dont know how people blindly belv what the stranger on the otherside blabbers.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
12 Jan 07
Okay I don't know if you had a bad experience or what but all internet people are not the same. I was friends for over three years and we talked online and couple years after we met online we talked on the phone and this August will be 8 years we have been married. Yes you may have an internet liar that works next to you but that doesn't make everyone that is on the internet liars. How do we know there really is someone working next to you? How do we know all the post on mylot are true yet respond to those anyways? I have read here in mylot serveral people that met their now spouse or partner on the internet so guess it isn't all bad. huh?
@lilkim90 (133)
• Canada
12 Jan 07
I am not even going to try internet love. It is just too much to take.
@berry9 (590)
• India
12 Jan 07
and even if you think of it,better ask for a web cam chat so that you can see the person.still it can be risky unles you personally meet and talk.
@neer22 (121)
• India
18 Jan 07
life is not short as it is said,so people should use it intelligently.
@usman400 (1587)
• Pakistan
8 Jan 07
Infact the main problem is that its actually not even a relationship look what is the reason of internet relationship = just time passing, hence its not a relationship but a need
• India
8 Jan 07
Cool post buddy....yeh, all hve to t.c of all these things
@berry9 (590)
• India
8 Jan 07
thanks for apreciating
@nw1911guy (1131)
• United States
20 Jan 07
this is tough. I know some people have had luck at it. I have a friend right now who is in a relationship with a man she has never met. I think it's kind of a bad idea but ultimately she has to be the one to make that choice. I know they can work, but I haven't yet tried so I don't have any experience to offer.
@nadh1981 (75)
• India
20 Jan 07
Yup, i agree, but you need to be wise in such a kind of relation. never take it for granted unless you see things with ur eye, even eyes may cheat u some time