How can we know a persons character at first sight
By abi_land
@abi_land (5)
India
20 responses
@abi_land (5)
• India
11 Oct 06
thank you for ur response
i found a little satisfied with u ,,u have mentioned about some thing i have been expecting to hear ,,yahh surely its from the eyessss,,,,coz ,,his smiles and looks all can be noticing,,,,but ,,,,the real existence comes from the eyes ,,,,in every case ,,even in his smiles ,,,,his smile can influence to a great extend to different levels of meanings according to his MOVEMENT OF EYES,,,,,,,..ITS JUST THE EYES which we can get a person AT FIRST SIGHT,,,i strongly believe so ,,,,thanks for ur answer hope u can have ur say to a more better style next time ,,,,
@Lackingstyle (7509)
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13 Oct 06
I agree with that, unless you're in a car-show room and the slightest catch of a rep's eyes and they're on you within a flash!
@jessesauer (207)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I have a very strong intution. From the first time I meet somebody, I can always tell what kind of a person they are. Often times, I freak people out because I can tell them so much about themselves...and that don't know how I do it.
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@abi_land (5)
• India
11 Oct 06
hi ,,thanx for responding to me
but friend ,,u dint mention ,,how u do that ,,or how ,u get a person at first sight ,its just have been mentioned that u could know a person well and again u have said u dont know how it happens ,,,hope u would respond me with some thing new ,,,,,,,once again thank you,,,for ur response,,,
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@jessesauer (207)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I'm not sure exactly HOW I use my intuition. I just can read people by the way they talk. I can sense shyness, conceitedness, I can sense how genuine they are by the way they talk. I just have an ability to read people well and pick up those signs very easily.
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@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I'm a good judge of character. To me it's how people act when around me. If they seem uncomfortable then there's something that isn't right. I've called a couple of my b/f friends being not to great people and they turned out to do exactly what I said they would.
@abi_land (5)
• India
11 Oct 06
again thanx for ur valuable response ,,but hey i think u dint get my question,,,,u have responded about the future character of a person ,,with ur experiences in dealing with him or her ,,,wot i actually meant is to get about a person ,,from the very first sight of him,,,,and talking to him for some first few minutes
i m sure ,,,,,u can respond some thing new idea with this ,,,hope u will ,,,thank you
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@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
12 Oct 06
their eyes and the way they act tell me the kind of person they are.
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@toonatoons (3737)
• Philippines
12 Oct 06
i don't think you can. you can't judge a book by its cover, can you?
@mohit2006 (793)
• India
13 Oct 06
i agree with you it is know about the character of a person in one meeting
@angelwings (41)
• United States
16 Oct 06
i can normally tell the time i meet the person for a first time.
@Lackingstyle (7509)
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13 Oct 06
It can do, of course, we express ourselves easily through our actions and reactions, though we can never really know someone on first meeting.
@mommydearest (877)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I really have to talk to a person a little first or watch them before I start to understand their character.
@babaramitabh (277)
• India
13 Oct 06
yes that is possible , there is a special language everybody speaks unknowingly and nobody can lie about it ,its called body language if u learn that ,u can know a person in just one meeting
@jennichad217 (275)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I think that I sorta go on my gut instint, rarley is it wrong about a person, but I have met a few people where my intuition has done me wrong.
@siberian_huskys_mama (314)
• United States
13 Oct 06
I am much like Jesse - I also have a very strong intuition. It's just natural. I do, however try my best to give everyone a fair shake and try to get to know them before I make a call on their character.
But I believe that, assuming the person is of sound mind, the eyes are definitely the best indicator of how someone is feeling, then the rest of the body language follows. There are certain actions that someone exhibits that can POSSIBLY give you and indication of what they are up to.
@i_agree_but (1183)
• United Arab Emirates
11 Oct 06
Just their appearance will give some idea.. That use to be mostly correct.
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
12 Oct 06
I think its called body language. If at the first meeting one can look at your eyes and respond to you, he is trustworthy. I have seen people who draw lines on the floor with their big toe. Their intentions are not very good. Also, if you look in between the eyes of a person when you talk to him, that person might feel intimidted. Some alwasy adjust their clothes, they are unsure of themselves. All these I gatherd from reading books. Happy to share it with you'll.
@MySpot (2600)
• United States
11 Oct 06
Some people are a good judge of character. I think I am.
It's that gut feeling, intuition, first impression, just a sense about someone. Dog's are very good at 'sensing' good from bad.
@srhelmer (7029)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
11 Oct 06
I think that ability is built into everyone as a defense mechanism. Otherwise, we would be conned by everyone out there.
@KIMBERLYC29 (267)
• United States
11 Oct 06
you can't it takes time to know some and I don't just mean a couple of months either.
