friendship or love??

India
January 8, 2007 12:33pm CST
have u ever been caught in a situation when u loved some one wid ur heart and soul....but had to go away from him/her? but tjhen u decided that no, even if i cant be with him as a wife / husband or as a lover.....let me be his / her friend?? but AS they say,...friendship can end in love but love can never end in friendship...what is your opinion??
4 responses
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
8 Jan 07
for me friendship is more important than love coz love gives pain and friendship gives happiness.
• India
8 Jan 07
true it is......love gives pain..but as they say...no gains without pain??? i m asking...what if u love someone and then u have to quit...will u forget him or her or u can step back into the shoes of friendship again??
• India
8 Jan 07
ya!but imagine if she loves you as a friend and when she comes to know that you dont feel the same for her rather u want to give her friendship the name of love then what will she think? It is then very much possible that u loose a very good friend.
• India
8 Jan 07
dear.. both of u started as frens...gradually realised and accepted that its love.....n then bcos of some circumstances....have to quit..........................now ..will u forget him/ her or plan to continue as frens forever........JUST FRENS???
@myfriendz (1226)
• India
8 Jan 07
i think friendship comes first and a friend can be a good life partner
• India
8 Jan 07
thanx for responding....but what if u fall in love wid ur frend and then u have to quit one day?????
• India
9 Jan 07
both thinks for whole life.
• India
9 Jan 07
ye shad been caught as i was we were working in same office n used to fights alpot than suddenly we became a freind shared lot with each other as ialso didnt knew that i loved him n he also didnt knew as my home still no one knows about these as one day my sis asked n i said no but she was right n next day he kissed me nthese way from friend he became my bf n now my life partner As still we can marry beacuse his studies r going on n my too n still need to tell parent that we decide to tell after our studies so i think first freindship come n than love