Is it WRONG for a 20 year old guy to have a relationship with a 15year old girL?

a 15 year old girl with a twenty year old man is wrong. love is love and whatever but a 15 year old girl is living out her childhood. to be with a twenty year old would ultimately deny her many of the experiences that she would have with someone her own age. statutory rape aside, those five years make a large impact on her life. i think that if your frienr truly loves this child then he should take that fact into consideration.

She was only 13 when they started dating so how does she know what being in love is. She's probably comfortable. I would say it's sick, but I don't know how I would feel if it were me being "in love" at 15. Maybe they are just meant to be. But I know I wouldn't want my 15 year old daughter to be with a 20 year old man, or any man or boy for that matter.

I think your 20 year old friend is sad if he can't find someone his own age to date.

Well, in most states it's illegal. But I've never known a 15 year old who really knows what love is. And I wonder what a 20 year old can find in common with a 15 year old. I would personally suggest that he find someone his own age.

i dont think it's wrong as long as they are not sleeping together because she is too young! my sister in law is dating a college guy right now and he is 19! and they love each other! and my mother in law allows it!

By the state law it is wrong. It is an illegal relationship and they have to stop it.

It's called stautory rape ,in love or not.

is the realationship difine well?if yes u are free.not only define have a good mind set on the ralationship.

Most states would consider it illegal as the common age of consent is 16. 18 in most states. My boyfriend's 21 and I'm 16 and we look past the age because we're pretty deeply in love. Age shouldn't come between two people from being together, the way I see it. It's not wrong, but it can be illegal if she's underage.

A 15 year old does not have nearly the same life experience as a 20 year old. When I was 16, I briefly dated a guy that was 22. He was always talking about his friends being in serious relationships, getting married, etc. He pressured me a great deal to tell him I "loved" him. This is when I realized the differences between us. Yes, I liked dating him. Yes, we had a good time when we went out together and we had really great, interesting conversations. But there was no way I could tell him I loved him. I wasn't at a stage in my life to think about marriage and a serious relationship. I was graduating high school... I wanted to go to college... I had never held a full-time job. I had too much life learning to do. I think the gap lessens as we age and we acquire more of the same points of reference, you know? A relationship between a 25 year old and a 30 year old, in my opinion, is a lot different than a 15 year old and a 20 year old. In one case the relationship involves two adults... the other involves an adult and a child.

Oh, and you said they've been dating for two years. That would make her 13 when they started and him 18. Oh no. I see something very wrong there. Definately tell him to find someone his own age.

yes wrong its a child abuse

I think it is wrong...I dont see what a 20 year old sees in a 15 year old...But you cant help who you fall in love with...I guess as long as her parents are okay with it....

it doesn't matter if they love each other. it's a conclusion no one else can interfere with, and it's unstoppable. what matters is what other people might think about them because, let's face it, people think that teenagers don't really feel love but admiration only. and the fact that she's not of legal age yet, many will worry about the consequences like her getting pregnant at a very early age. i do not oppose on their relationship though, but the two should handle their relationship with utter responsibility and care.

Dating underage girls is illegal only if they are physically involved too. Advice your friend against that. he might get in to the trouble if giorl or her parents complain. Theres nothing wrong in innocent romancing if they really like each other.

It's depend on "how legal this is in your country?. If this legal, it's ok i think. But if isn't, face it! They cannot have a relationship that against the law. Try to wait another 10 years. And it doesn't wrong anymore. LOL

Listen dude..Age matters nil in front of love..If lovee is all that u have in mind then nothin else seems to be of any other prime importance..'n also in this case its hardly a difference bout 5 yrs or so,this isnt illegal w.r.t. law in any sense..'n tat too its juss Normal dating rite..

If they will be too serious with the relationship and will go beyond what is expected of them to have---I think, that's the time that, I could say, it's wrong.If they both jump into marriage bec the 15 yr. old got pregnant, that's absolutely and undeniably against the law. If they will take it easy and just savour the kind of relationship they have, well then go ahead, have clean fun & enjoy each other's company.

from my point of view there is nathing wrong to date a girl of any girl but with her willingness ok dude

..it all depends upon how do u read the term"dating as" it has lots of meaning, if u consider dating in term of wrong thing then its illegal otherwise its all ok....no need to worry..but certainly ur in danger of loosing...!!!