I don't want to talk about my llife.

It is not a defect in you, it is a genetic thing. Most men do not want to discuss their life. They only want to discuss what they can do with their life. Women usually want to talk about their lives because it is interesting to them and they set their future goals by their past experiences. Also your age may play a small part , but I think it is your gender that plays the biggest part. It is a good thing and most of women would love that trait at times.

i think that everybody have diffrent skills and characterstics which lead to everyone to do somthing and to love something differ with other one so nevermind about others but mind with your self.

I don't see it as a defect at all. You simply are the type of person that looks forward instead of bacwards. It is a good trait to have. I think it gives you an incentive to actually achieve things better.

I agree with shoelover (BTW, both of my daughters are shoe lovers!) Why wallow in the past? Learn quickly from the past, look ahead, move on and move forward. Those that live in the past are doomed to repeat it! It reminds me of something I heard one time and I apologize I don't know the original author. It went something like, "Simple minds talk about people, average minds talk about things, intelligent minds talk about ideas." One final note: we can't change our past but we can change our future (even our next five years) by the decisions we make today.