Would you give up your seat?

@jmcafam (2890)
United States
January 8, 2007 5:42pm CST
If there were elderly standing up in a room or bus would you give up your seat to them? I think it is the polite thing to do.
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• United States
8 Jan 07
You bet I would. As long as they don't demand it. I am a right leg amputee and would still give my seat up to an elder. ‹(°¿°)›
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@jmcafam (2890)
• United States
8 Jan 07
How respectful you are to do that.
@sioux2u (176)
• United States
8 Jan 07
you sweet
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• United States
9 Jan 07
Thanks. I was raised properly.
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@sioux2u (176)
• United States
8 Jan 07
yes i would. yes i have done so. i even weny got them a chair to set in
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@jmcafam (2890)
• United States
8 Jan 07
That is very nice of you. I notice not very many do this. I gave my seat up today and someone else followed and gave theirs up.
@sioux2u (176)
• United States
8 Jan 07
i was taught to do so when i was a little girl. dont see many people give up anything today . its a shame.
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• Ireland
9 Jan 07
Although I consider my self to be elderly, I would still give up my seat to another elderly person or a person with a young child. I think it is disgraceful watching young children sitting down, stuffing their faces with seats while elderly people are struggling to stand.
@jmcafam (2890)
• United States
11 Jan 07
It is just horrible seeing someone that could really use a seat to sit in have to stand because a young one is self obsorbed in their own comfort.
• Canada
8 Jan 07
Oh gosh, yes! I agree that it's the polite thing to do. I can remember when I was VERY pregnant with my first child and I was on the subway. It was so hot, early June, and I was feeling really unwell. Not a single person offered their seat. A lot of people will avert their eyes (or pretend to sleep) so as not to make eye contact with the elderly or differently-abled. I guess, that way, they don't feel "obligated" to get up or "guilty" when they don't. I don't know when we became such an uncaring society.
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@jmcafam (2890)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Well, I am very sorry that you had stand for the ride. Being pregnant is hard and having to stand for periods of times is difficult.
@puneet08 (102)
• India
3 Feb 07
Yes , I always give seat to someone old person standing in the bus . In this way we can show the respect , love and affection to the older generation.
@jmcafam (2890)
• United States
3 Feb 07
Thank you for responding. It is great to hear that the respect for the elders is not lost.
• United States
11 Jan 07
I gave up my seat to an elderly woman when my five year old son and I were waiting for a table in a busy restaraunt. I think it is the right thing to do, and I want my son to show respect and consideration for elders.
@jmcafam (2890)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Good for you Mom. Don't see to many parents doing that now a days. I think more parents should follow in your footsteps. Teaching our children respect for others is great manners for our children.
@mystikel (577)
• Australia
8 Jan 07
I do. Some older people are really rude though and expect that they should be at the front of lines, have seats, etc. But most times if they need a seat I would give them one. Also do it for heavily pregnant mums as Know how uncomfortable they get standing
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@jmcafam (2890)
• United States
9 Jan 07
I do understand what you mean about the eldery who are rude about it.
@neilf49 (809)
8 Jan 07
Well despite the fact that I'm knocking on a bit myself, yes I would do, particularly elderly ladies, in fact the gentlemanly thing would be for any lady irrespective of her age. It is nice to know that there are still some people around that have decent manners and are willing to stand by them (no pun intended). I wonder in this day and age, certainly in my country, where all the respect has gone for others, i see it in schools where the kids have no respect for the teachers, and unfortunately there is no way for the teachers to gain the respect that they deserve. There is no wonder the country is getting into the state it is, noone has respect for the people that matter.
@jmcafam (2890)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Respect by the young has definitely dropped. It is a sad sight to see.
@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Yes, I would. It's the polite and respectful thing to do. This is another problem with the majority of teenagers these days; they don't have respect for the elderly or the handicapped. We were brought up to be polite and respectful to those who were handicapped and frail.
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@jmcafam (2890)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Very well said. I feel the same way.
@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
23 Jan 07
Yes I would give my seat to anyone who looks like he needs it more than me .. this is how we were raised, too bad that some of the younger generations don't do the same anymore .
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9 Jan 07
i would and i do to elderly and women its the way my dad brought me up and i will with my son think every man should do it
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@beyonce03 (2331)
• Canada
8 Jan 07
I always did that and I will still do it again. I also do it for pregant woman. They made a test the other at tv with a pregant woman and only one person in all the ride give her a seat. People are so selfish these days
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@zakhir (50)
• Mauritius
9 Jan 07
Of course, i think its in the civilised society for people to help the elderly, the young and the physically-challenged. Its in this way that our society can become really strong.
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
3 Feb 07
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I sure do and I hope one day when I'm their age someone will do the same for me.
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@wmg2006 (5381)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Yes I have always done this. As long as I am able to stand I will continue to do this. I was taught at a very young age this was the thing to do. It makes me feel good too.
@tildy12 (760)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Yes I would get up and over them a seat.It definetely is the polite think to do.
@Geminigirl (1909)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Yes, I absolutely would. I was taught to respect my elders, and I would feel awful if I was sitting and they were standing.
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@cultoffury (1283)
• India
3 Feb 07
Yeah, that would be the best thing to do. I always try to do that, but I agree, sometimes when I am so tired and worn out, I don't get up. I do regret about it later, I know I need to change. The best part is that, when you get up, the happiness and recognition in their face is simply unexplicable. Also, at times I got blessings and wishes from them. That was really touching, I know that has helped me.
• United States
3 Feb 07
I have always offerred my seat to someone who was elderly whether it is a man or woman, that is the way I was raised. Also, if I see a woman pregnant or someone disabled I also offer them my seat.