Was it good?

Philippines
January 8, 2007 8:08pm CST
I meet a friend online..In the past few days and months of keeping in touch..we both falling in love with each other but he was from different country and we did not even meet in person yet..But he is very much willing to come to our country and meet in person and now he is proposing for marriage to me.My problem is i am married and i lie to him coz i already love him..i dont want to lose him anymore and i am planning to have annul to my husband. But before i will do it i want to tell him first the truth but i am afraid whats the next happen..Was it better to do that before he come to our country and meet me..Im sure it is too much for him to be here but becuase he loves me..that is why..
2 responses
@ashishsab (292)
• Canada
9 Jan 07
It is better you tell everything to that person before he comes to your country. Remember you cannot build a house with walls of sand false foundations. To make a good house you need proper foundations like truth and walls made of concrete like love, affection, devotion, truth, understanding. Without this no relation can stand like no house can stand. So tell him whats true and its not a big dealt that he might have also hided lots of things from you. Be a sport and if you are married alreayd dont spoil your marriage relation for someone whom you have never met. To be on the safer side you can tell your husband casually that you were chatting with someone to pass your free time and you didnt told that you are married and now he is proposing you for marriage. If you put it like this in front fo your husband I am sure he will take it positively and will help you in the issue and your marriage will also be saved.
@katrina21 (116)
• India
9 Jan 07
Honesty is the best policy, but maybe you can annul your marriage first and then tell him in person. It may not make a big difference or it might. You'll just have to live with it. Maybe he has kept secrets from you too, maybe that is why he wants to meet you in person. All the best nevertheless!