what do you like in a guy? what do you consider sexy?.....both men and women

I look for thin men with blonde hair (eitehr natural or dyed) an bue eyes. I like white men but have dated black men before. Also the guy has to be easy to talk to, approachable and very well grounded.

Maybe race matters, might agree on this one. I might like somebody from the other race and find him to be beautiful and nice, although maybe people among his race won`t find him to be so beautiful as I might. But inter racial relationships might not work out in a long-term, because usually with a different race-- different cultures comes. But otherwise: no, it does not matter. Is Marylin Monroe sexy? Was she sexy because she was blond or was it because of the charm she had and mastered very good? I hope You got the idea that a person depends more, not only physical appearance.

hi well like tall men but not too much taller than me like thin-average size men a little fat is ok but not alot any race is fine though mosty only even dated white men but black/tanned etc but can be sexy too like dark hair and blonde though other colours can be nice to0 on some people long hair or medium legth hair i find sexy on some men though some look sexy with short hair and i like blue,green or brown eyes but any really like quite rough looking guys but not too rough looking though not rough looking can be sexy too just depends if i like what i see but usally the above things are what i find mosty sexy on a man or i might like them for mosty there personaty and not mosty on looks but would have be some nice about them even if it is some like there eyes or hair