Why is that people are not at all respoding to my messages. Why is it?

@rathish (284)
India
January 9, 2007 4:24pm CST
Why is it so, because that i am from india, or else the topic which i post is not at all related to you people
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13 responses
9 Jan 07
well i will be happy to respond to your discussions if i can good luck keep trying and keep smiling and india is a lovely place
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• United States
9 Jan 07
Thank you very much. All of you. I myself am not from India, but simply responded to his question with my own fears/insecurities. Maybe I'm just a bit paranoid. I don't know. I will just do like Dorie in Finding Nemo says: "just keep swimming, keep swimming" lol BTW: Happy New Years to all. :-)
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@rathish (284)
• India
10 Jan 07
Thank you for your response. Please try to.. I think almost all the people in world they do like India
@cognigen (121)
• Mexico
9 Jan 07
I'm finding that I respond to quite a few people from India here. Even if your topics tend to be of mostly local interest, the Indian population on myLot seems to be substantial enough that you should get some responses. Try to post on topics which would seem to be of interest to a large audience; books, music, movies (bollywood??), pets, housing and economics all seem to be good starting places. I am posting fairly narrow topics, like restoring my 1963 Cadillac, and find that I get at least SOME responses.
@rathish (284)
• India
10 Jan 07
Thank you for ur response. And thanks for your advice.
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
Don't feel bad dude. At least now your getting response from other mylot users including me hehe. It's not that whenever we start a discussion every user will be interested in the topic. I started some discussions but got no response or a very few response but still I don't feel bad. Just keep on posting and hope that other users will respond. good Luck!
@rathish (284)
• India
19 Jan 07
Thank you for your response. Good luck to you also!
• United States
9 Jan 07
Don't feel alone here. I too started a discussion trying to get assistance with an interview I need to do and have gotten no response to it. I asked a simple question and asked for a simple question in return yet that discussion was started 4 days ago and not a single response. I think only those with many many post actually get their discussions responded to.
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@rathish (284)
• India
10 Jan 07
Thank you for responding. Anyways this really happens to almost lot of people here . If it is so then i will change my mind.
• India
10 Jan 07
my dear u r in my frnd list i always respond to ur discussion. u dont post discussion thats the main problem.
• India
14 Jan 07
you both keep notify on , than you will get to know who creates discussion, you will get intimation to your mail.
@rathish (284)
• India
10 Jan 07
Thank you for Responding. But i have posted near 5-6 i got only 1 response to that except this da..
@FreakQD (867)
• India
19 Jan 07
Lemme try to give you some tips to create a health topic. BTW, It has nothing to do with whether you are an Indian or not. First thing yon need to do is to search whether someone has created a same topic which you have created. Many in this community get pissed off when they see a reported topic and they are not intersted in it. Also the heading you give for the topic must be attractive coz many used to reply by seeing the heading. Try to aviod creating "Whats ur favourite hero or someother stuffs like this requires one line answer. Many wont be intersted to respond to such a topic. I am not pointing that u created such a topic. I am just give my opinion. Also try to avoid topics with Racisim. I guess this will help you out...
@mythmoh (3984)
• United States
9 Jan 07
it is not because of your antionality or any other reason.may be it not be that much attractive.i wont get more than 20 responses.most of my discussions have 0 response.i think the time plays a important role here.if you post it when there are more number of people and it continues to be in the first page then chances are more for lot of responses.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
9 Jan 07
There Im responding to your message. Is that good? Maybe they are not interested in your discussion. It happens dont be so paronoid that your from India and thats the reason. The people here are not like that. Or maybe you knew this question would get a spark for you. So dont accuse us of something we are not guilty of. That is no way to make friends.
• India
14 Jan 07
hey make more friends , make the notify on in your friends, and respond more responses, that will get you more responses, nothing like if you are indian you will get more response. here more number of indians than any other people, ok dont be upset creat more friends create more discussion. responmd more rate all responses.
@sweetlady10 (3611)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Don't worry, at some point it happens to lot of people. Keep posting and hope for the best.
@82idiots (595)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Sometimes its that way. A message has to hit someone the right way at the right time. A lot of my own have been passed over. Don't take it personally.
• United States
19 Jan 07
I think it happens to everyone. You really shouldn't take it personally. Maybe you could just repost your message and word it a little differently. Make sure you use tags. Tags help people find your discussion.
• United States
19 Jan 07
Hi there, I wouldn't get to upset. I am new to the mylot community, and I'm sure if I posted topic i wouldn't get very many responses. If I did, It would probably be because the topic interests many people. Try posting other types of discussions. I don't believe it's because your from India. Hope this cheers you up.