i have a problem

Mexico
January 9, 2007 6:38pm CST
i met a girl who is 3 years old more young than me, im 16 and shes 13, i have sent her 2 messages, and i have not already talked with her after it. im looking the way to go and talk with her, but i dont know how, and what do i have to tell to her. help me!!!
4 responses
Chapman15
@Chapman15 (1492)
• United States
10 Jan 07
My best success with women is getting them to talk about themselves... Everyone can talk about themselves, so just go from there if she mentions something that you're interested in then go with that!
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Chapman15
@Chapman15 (1492)
• United States
10 Jan 07
You should find out what her dad does, because I'm sure she knows a bunch about that! It might be a good way to break the ice...
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diego018
@diego018 (74)
• Mexico
10 Jan 07
in the first opportunity i will go with her and start talking about somethign, i dont know, about her favorite music, but shes very shy!!! i need to find a way so she feels more secure.
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Silverchic
@Silverchic (396)
• Australia
10 Jan 07
Just go up to her and start chatting about anything...even the weather would do! lol If you have sms'ed then she obviously knows who you are so go and say Hi...ask if she wants to see a movie with you or something???
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diego018
@diego018 (74)
• Mexico
10 Jan 07
ahhh, i forgot to mention another problems. her dad is president of someplace, and he is very restrictive, he wont let her to go around with someone that he doesnt know.
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Silverchic
@Silverchic (396)
• Australia
10 Jan 07
Make an excuse to introduce yourself to her Dad (and make sure that you are on your BEST behaviour!) then technically he will know who you are and might be a bit easier on his daughter seeing you... ? Might work! =)
scottology
@scottology (1208)
•
10 Jan 07
you must be a paedophile, go find a girl your own age
Silverchic
@Silverchic (396)
• Australia
10 Jan 07
That's a bit rude! A three year age gap hardly makes him a paedophile! But for the original post: IMHO I think about the best thing you can do is actually go and talk to her! I only got the main gist of your question - the rest is a bit muddled up...but I'm a big believer in talking things through with people. Don't just assume that they know what you are thinking / feeling, TELL THEM! =) Good luck...
moejavier
@moejavier (26)
• China
24 Jan 07
If you really like that girl, then you will find a way to talk to her and if the dad is the problem then do something.. introduce yourself and be very a respectable guy. Have his trust that you will never hurt his little baby girl. However, my advice is let the girl be mature enough to handle this kind of situations. You are still 16 and you will still a lot to experience. She is 13 and give her time to grow up. Do not be anxious or get worried that you will not be able to talk to her. It is very common to have these feelings when being in love or infatuated. Give her time to be a full grown lady then make your move.... but it is best to establish first some friendship and if you are lucky this will lead to true love.