We should close the door on bad relatives.

United States
January 9, 2007 7:57pm CST
Why would any sane person want to have a friendship with relatives that participated in the abuse of a family member? Imagine an aunt telling a nephew that the family expects him to be nice to a cousin, or uncle, that was involved in an insane scheme to abuse him, or damage his life, or his orientation? Isn't that crazy? Can it be so wrong to refuse to have anything to do with anyone that is directly or indirectly involved with those people?
2 responses
• India
10 Jan 07
we cannot choose our relatives but surely avoid them. every body needs a social life but for that u should not allow ur relatives to get on ur nerves. first comes our family if anybody abuses any member of our family the best thing is to drive them away.
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@bikaner (58)
• India
10 Jan 07
It is true and every one of us is doing it knowingly or unknowingly. GOD has gifted us basically with love. And another god-gift is human tendency to forget/forgive. So generally we forget many things with the lapse of time. And human tendency to love/forgive overcomes all our bitter experiences & we come to the track of normal relations with only a very slight deviation.
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