Have you ever had an experience where you didn't know where you were?
By caribe
@caribe (2465)
United States
January 9, 2007 10:26pm CST
Quite a few years ago, when I had been under a significant amount of stress, I was driving my car when I suddenly had no idea where I was, where I was going, or how to get home. I remember driving around a few blocks over and over trying to see something familiar so I could get my bearings and make my way back home. I was in a state of panic. I searched for quite awhile trying to get my bearings in this town that I knew quite well. Finally, I saw something familiar and it was like a fog cleared the view and I knew where I was and drove home. I never had that experience before nor since that time. It was one of the scariest experiences of my life and I haven't thought about it in quite some time. Have any of you ever had a similar experience?
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@funnysis (2619)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I do that alot any more I will start out doing something and then wonder what I am doing and have totally forgot everything its like a space cotinuin you just seem to gap a part of time and I think its just totally lost not sure but it leaves you with a sense of emptyness for a moment and you have to recollect thoughts to try and figure out what you were doing or about to do.I understand very well what you went through now imagine it being apart of every day life.
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@SunlightSwoon (1060)
• United States
10 Jan 07
I stay on the road quite a bit, and I find that when I am driving my thoughts sort of drift from topic to topic. I am able to drive, follow all the rules of the road, make whatever traffic adjustments that are needed in order to avoid accidents and incidents...however, their is a part of me that is focus on other things. I could be thinking about where I am going, what I need to pick up at the grocery store, an upcoming birthday or whatever. And sometimes I am so wrap up in those thoughts, I will approach a light, look around and ask myself, how in the heck did I get here, I will be following the right route, but I become so absorbed in other thoughts, that I don't consciously keep track of my present location. I think we just have too much going on in our lives sometimes...it would be great to be able to take a vacation from our thoughts...SS
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@caribe (2465)
• United States
10 Jan 07
I do that too. I think probably everybody does to some degree. If I am not driving I don't pay attention to how we got to where we are going and I am not sure I could find it again. I just don't pay attention to the turns we make if someone else is responsible for getting us to our destination.
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
6 Feb 07
It is scary when this happens and it did happen to us many years ago. We were driving back home after holidays but due to bad weather, rain, an accident (not us), punctured tyre etc we were behind schedule by about 24 hours. So one night we decided to drive through the night but is was extremely foggy. My husband was driving and I was navigating but we got lost and it took us about 100km to realise it. So we changed drivers and off we went back to where we should be going.
After that it was obviously auto-pilot situation as I cannot remember returning home although we did take it in turns to drive, about an hour at a time due to the very foggy conditions plus being tired. I have no idea what time we arrived back home but our son later informed me it was around lunch time and that a couple of hours later I left to return to Melbourne for work the following day.
Even today I cannot remember much past a certain time, and nor can my husband, but we managed to get home safely all the same. I don't think we panicked at all but yes it had been an awful trip, we had booked a motel but didn't arrive there and then they wouldn't refund the money so we kept on going. Just pulled up every now and then for a bit of a nap, walk around etc. After that trip I vowed and declared that never again would we go anywhere in a hurry or drive for more than a couple of hours at a time without a break.
You are right caribe in that stress can make a person disorientated and even if they know the area well, it can be forgotten under extreme stress. Then if the person has a panic attack, the whole matter can be exacerbated.
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
5 Mar 07
Thank you very much for giving me best response for this discussion caribe. It is genuinely appreciated. :)
@caribe (2465)
• United States
10 Jan 07
My doctor just attributed it to stress. She said she wasn't at all surprised when I told her what had happened to me. For many years I didn't totally understand what happened. I can recall very little of that part of my life. Quite a few years are missing with only a vague memory or two here and there. I have since learned that I was taking a type of blood pressure medication at that time that is now known to cause that kind of side effect. I didn't know about that for many years. I read it and heard about it on the news a year or so ago.
@007Bond1974 (881)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
yeah mam,i grew up in a provincial town with a small commercial district,it happened when it was my first time in this big city(manila)i was in the middle of a commercial districts lots of buildings,i was 18y/o then,i was amazed on what i was seeing so i walked around the place...looking at these big tall buildings...i was so amused that i forgot where i was...i ended up asking people wheres the way to a place where i can ride a bus on my way to my uncles place...i was lucky there was this old guy on his way home and he lives on the sam place or area where my uncle lives...lesson learned after that?always carry a map if you dont know the place...hehehe.peace
@meloy_74 (26)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
Once I was riding my usual route when i decided to turn and check out some new roads. It turned out that it really is new! I indeed have not been on those roads before and I dont know where I was. But since it was still morning, I just kept on riding. It turned out that I knew the place, but only by name. I didnt know how to get out. So, I just followed the highway and pray that it wont lead me further out. Soon I was back to roads I knew. I didnt have a scare though
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
4 Feb 07
Oh yes, I developed a medical problem a few years ago, where I was taking some really nasty medication. It made me confused and forgetful and disoriented.
Well I got lost coming home one day, I was less then a 1/2 mile a way, and I couldn't remember how to get home, I pulled over and lost it.
A cop came up and asked me the problem, he then asked for a breathalyzer test.
Someone had to come and get me. After that I was not allowed to go anywhere alone, my son was 14 at the time, poor kid had to go everywhere with me.