the truth about leaving someone behind

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it is never hard to deal with being hurt by the people you love but you just have no other choice because the people you love are the only ones who can really hurt you. it is always a big dilemma in a relationship when we play the part of the one who thought to be one who left behind another. they say that it is too mean for a person to leave someone hanging in the open, but same thing goes on the other hand. leaving someone is also not easy, the burden is still there. it does not necessarily mean that when someone leaves his/her partner the sorrow and pain and suffering and everything were left behind to the latter. leaving someone is very much relative to holding and letting go. on the part of leaving someone;lies a much deeper burden. one must consider all the things he/she will take and bear into mind the consequences of concluding the relationship. its not just letting go of all the grudges and pains but also holding on of the remaining trusts and respect that are still being considered between the two of them. it is ironic that a good relationship always has to end, a beginning has to end. most people really can't accept this idea that it has to end. neglecting the thought that when someone leaves, someone is coming. they can't realize that it is a gift of starting a new and to learn in the process. they can't understand the processof life that it always has to balance itself one way or another. one beginning will surely end but after that, another will surely begin and life goes on and on. we all have to move on, have to be hurt, shattered into pieces and sometimes have to leave someone in order to meet some along the way, in order for us to be competent enough in this world, in order for us to feel free and to know we are alive. to bleed is one thing to appreciate the healing process as to be left behind is to be grateful that we still manage to survive. both sides have felt the agony relatively. no one is a looser in this relationship called life. one should never blame a person who left someone for reasons were always there. it should be respected in any case. instead that person must be brought into absolution that in one way or another, that person felt the same way and battling an agony and miseries relative to another. often than not, all must consider the brighter side of life. anywhere we go, anytime in our life, as we experience such tragic ends, we still have other beginnings that still don't end. they are our friends, families and everyone we have made a beginning even though we rarely realized it. and part of the miraculous balancing process, your beginning with a person which has been end might be your next beginning after all. this means that life can't find you any other beginning unless with that person, and that is destiny.