am i a gay?
By velkanster
@velkanster (234)
India
January 10, 2007 2:44am CST
Hey when i went to my aunts home for my summer vacation i founda guy next to my aunts home he was also in the same class as i did he had a very nice gym built body and i usually admire him a lot and he also moved very close with me.Then i came back things went on .To my surprise i found him in my college as my room mate in my hostel we both had as eparate room he was well built and was handsome and again i got disturbed by his body and his way of changing dress in front of me he says that he wants me and am a gay?
since i got attracted to him does is it mean am gay?
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24 responses
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
10 Jan 07
I think you must know it. But if you still do not know you will realize it sooner or later. For anycase I suggest you to be honest to yourself. Do not care with others opinions.
Anyway both the beauty of a man's or woman's body can attract me too. The beauty touches everybody, I think. But there is a difference bettween feeling and feeling.
@Lovely_Lady (1523)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Well, if you're attracted to him, you might be. I mean, it's okay to be gay. If that's what you want and makes you happy. I know it will be really disturbing to others but what does others have to do with you or him? It's your life and his. Do whatever you please and like. No one can judge you but yourself. You seem to have alot of attention draw to this person too... if he feels the same about you, go for it.
@anne_143god (5387)
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
Being gay is a choice if you want to be with a guy or if you being attracted to a guy its all your choice to control it or let it happen . For me I think yes you are a gay but it is up to you if you want to be like that.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Thats really kinda of hard to say was you sexually attracted to him? You could be bicurious.You might want to see what its like.Maybe you just like his body and want yours to be that way.
@deep_whizkid (108)
• India
11 Jan 07
No my friend. u r not a gay. you are only attracted to physical appearance i.e is beautiful cuts & curves bodies. even I do get attracted, be it a man or woman. we should all appreciate the time & efoorts put by these beautiful bodies owners. A beautiful body is the temple of the soul.
@koikoikoi (1246)
• United States
11 Jan 07
No, it doesn't. That is like saying a guy that says another guy is good looking is gay. Grown women check out other women's body and that doesn't mean they're a lesbian. They check out their chest and butt and they say she has a nice body but it doesn't make them gay. You dig?
@dradelelassy (1208)
• United States
10 Jan 07
from your pic i can see you are gal and i would like to ask you in india is it permitted for man to be room mate of girl?
@dlsuchix (35)
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
hi! it is only you who can answer wether you are a gay or a straight or a BI. as i can see... i think you are attracted to him because if you dont like him, why bother disturbed by his naked body going around you and all?
have u felt this way before to a girl? if not then that answers your question. No matter what you are, you dont have to hide it, instead, be true to yourself and that will set you free. Don't care on whateverybody will say about you, just be you.... like what i said... it's only you who can tell who you are.... you know yourself best
@Melizzy (1381)
• United States
11 Jan 07
It doesn't mean you are gay. Just as all gays aren't attracted to all other gays, not all heteros are attracted to all other heteros. Just because he's good looking and has a good job doesn't mean you're gonna fall all over him. From your picture I gather you may be Indian? You may feel pressure to fall in love with him because he is from the right class, looks etc. Love, attraction is not determined by those things.
Yeah, you might be gay. You might be bi and then you might just be attracted to whatever you are attracted to.
@emarie (5442)
• United States
10 Jan 07
it is possible, but also at that age a lot of people experiment as well. its commen for other men to admire anothers man body, especially if its well built. women do the same as well...its something that we would want in ourselves. do you feel your attracted to him enough to want a relationship with him? if so, then its possible. give it time, you could be just going both ways..but i normally say people aren't bi, their just greedy..lol =)
@arayanlovex (622)
• India
10 Jan 07
i think you wanted to be this,only you will decid that what you are,if you want nothing wrong in it,but try safer stuffs.
@nuffsed (1271)
•
10 Jan 07
Only you can know that. Do you need the label to help you decide what to do?
also.....
Tell me why do you have a female avatar?
Is it because like many Asian boys you are fascinated by the female and don't realise that an avatar should represent you in some way?
Or do you see yourself as femenine like the picture?
@wilsonsir12 (494)
• United States
10 Jan 07
will im kind of confused my what your saying because if your a guy that would be gay i think but your picture is a girl so i thiugh you were a girl
@virginiab (9)
• United States
10 Jan 07
I dont think it means that you are gay, necessarily. I think that theres a pretty broad spectrum when it comes to sexuality. I dont think there are many people that are 100% straight or gay..Maybe you are attracted to this guy because he has really impressive physical attributes..or maybe he has qualities that you admire and wish you had yourself? Either way, i wouldnt obsess over it too much.
