are you too big?

Well, sometimes. An then I tend to ask the people: "Do I look like her, do I?" Sometimes I annoy the people like that. I will work on it thought, because we are unique human beings.

Well I have watched these shows and yes I have been shocked a few times myself that I would start a diet immediately. My mom thinks its her thing in life to point out things like that to me. Me yeah I wear baggy stretchy clothing and so I don't really know or reconize that I've put on a couple more pounds I do find it very hurtful sometimes to have people state the fact that I'm as big as a rhrino yes I know I'm fat but we just don't realize how big we actually get sometimes maybe due to denial or even because we stay away from mirrors as much as possible.

no i think i am very not very big hehe

I haven't seen these programs. But I do have a tendency to compare myself with others that are my approximate height, weight and wonder -- Wow! I can't look like that, can I? And if with a friend or my husband sometimes I'll ask - do I look like that? etc. Human nature I guess, I am always amazed lately when I see photos of myself, I have gain 85 pounds over the past 6 years (medications, bad habits etc.) I am hoping this is the year it comes off :)

Unfortunately, yes. I hate to see people my size and then think that I'm the same. I want to just stay in denial most of the time, but I know I can't. It really sucks.