Do you lie to the people on the Internet??
By Kunal Vijan
@kunalvijan (3411)
India
January 10, 2007 9:29pm CST
I just remember a friend who told me that he lie to the people on net. well, i don't know if it's a white lie or not. it's hard for me to lie. sometimes i think to myself that maybe he's right. maybe it's ok to lie coz it helps to hide your true identity and personal information (just like privacy). but sometimes, i wonder, what if those people i talk to through net will found out that i am such a liar? then there will come a day that they wont believe me anymore? well, it's hard for me to decide whether i will lie or not. what do you think? what about you? do you also lie to the people on the net just like my friend?
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@julie0825 (1414)
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
in chat rooms - i dont think all of the people there are telling the truths - by the it is normal that we dont reveal our real identity on the net -
@foxsoon (150)
• Australia
11 Jan 07
I think depends on who are the person you are talking to. If I were to get a stranger messaging me and stuff, maybe a lie or two. But if it's friends or forums like this, I think I wouldn't even like the sound of a lie. Because are like actors in a movie, just that we are living in it and we write our own plot in the movie, not to mention you only have 1 life and 1 chance to make the best out of it.
you don't want it to be a lie wouldn't you?
@ajay_coder (277)
• India
11 Jan 07
Yup soetimes i do lie on net when some one asks address or other such things on yhe net and then i either lie on just dont tell them all depends on my mood to do it
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@prettydoyce (282)
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
I agree.. You do not know as well if these people you re talking to are also stating truths. It would also be hard to lie because if you lready gin the trust of the person you are speaking with, how are you going to tell him the truth and still trust you?
@OOHCUTE2340 (761)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I guess people might lie to strangers when they are unhappy with theirselves and thier life. I think you have to use wisdom especially in Chat Rooms and such to the extent of personal information you give out - there are dangers in the internet community we hear about all the time -- What goes around comes around, and sure as the day is long - a lie no matter how small you may think it is will one day catch up to you. Oh what a tangled web we weave ... when we start to deceive --- Lying is hard work too, you have to keep up with them and remember who you said what to -- better to use wisdom and honesty ;)
@Wanderlaugh (1622)
• Australia
11 Jan 07
No, why bother? What are they going to do, throw their address books at you for being honest?
Seriously, though, lies tend to come back to liars. Much worse is the fact that since all anyone on the net has to go by is what you say, being a known liar makes anything you say doubtful. Say nothing, rather than lie.
@4rC_4nG3L (132)
•
11 Jan 07
would you lie to protect someone in your family or mabye yourself?
but sometimes its ok to lie a little, if the case is some1 is persistanly askin "were do you live" or "what is your phone number" then to protect yourself you would lie,
i dont like strangers known that sort of stuff about me, so i just tell them a fake address or phone number to shut them up..
@samthestar (1)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Why do we need to lie on Internet. My way of communicating with people on internet is to say truth about what i am. When people ask very personal questions i jus reply them by saying "Why u want to know this" instead of lying. If they are intersted in continuing communcation with me then fine or else we have millions of friends on net.
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@Jaclyn_rae (15)
• Canada
11 Jan 07
I trufully am not a liar, therefor even if I want to couldn't lie over the internet even if I wanted to. But I have been lied to and it sucked, it was weird and I often wonder why I even cared, but at the same time it was hard to be able to trust the person again, and you sometimes wonder if you can trust certain things they are telling you. Regardless if it is over the internet or not, you are now someone who lies. I know that in some intances it is a complete stranger, but if you have opened up that door to lie to them, couldnt you just stretch the truth and lie to someone else? Confusing I know but are you getting what I am saying, it makes sense I think.
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I never lie to people on the internet. I think it's pointless to lie on the internet or anywhere for that matter. If anything, the internet should be able make you more open and honest about who you are. For example, I discuss things in the myLot community that I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole around some people that I know. It's nice to be able to be who you are without any pretenses. I'm for honesty...why not?! If you get used to lying on the internet, who's to say you aren't lying the rest of the time too? Usually when people lie they have to tell bigger lies to cover up their tracks, or they forget what they said in the first place. Honesty and truth are much easier in the long run, and lying just isn't worth it, (imho.)
@Lovely_Lady (1523)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Well, I'm not a liar and I don't like lying. I just don't think there's anything to lie about on here. I could understand if it's really personal questions and trying to get your identity or informations that will define you. But if I ever do come across something like this, I just avoid it and move on. I don't need to lie. I just avoid it. Learn to avoid personal informations and do what like and not have fear. Well, it's the internet we're talking about here and there's spammers everywhere... it is hard to just trust anyone and tell them anything. But again, I don't like to lie and usually I just avoid them or change the subject.
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@santwana_veddika (2018)
• India
11 Jan 07
first of all i don't want to chat on net . i was work at mylot from two month . normally i respond to my friend discussion and if he/she not started new discussion than i have send message why he is not start any discussion
during sending message i have send message to arun , he again respond me after that he send request for chating .
we both are honest . honestly i have said everythnig and he said me too.
Now we are good friends .
i think talk only those people whom u want to talk beacuse nobody hide themself for long time .
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@hassei_takano (1411)
• Indonesia
11 Jan 07
never. Besie, I never chat with unknown people
They ussualy add my msg after they know me well at other forum that I followed. ^^
But I will decline to give personal information. ^^ Decline beter than lie.
@pankaj2201 (77)
• India
11 Jan 07
dear it depends upon type and to whom we are talking . sometimes lie works better .
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@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
12 Jan 07
I don't lie to people on the net, but I don't give out any information about myself that could be used to do my any harm. THere is no reason for the people you met on the net to ask for personal information.
@mastrkeezr (53)
• Philippines
14 Jan 07
lie is something we can use to protect someone or something in our possesion though lying in eyes of God is bad. Is it? =) Well for me, i dont normally lie to the people on the Internet simply because i have nothing to hide. Im a very transparent person and i can tell if the person im talking to has some bad intention the way is he asking me questions.If i sense that, then i can lie a bit just to misled him. =)
@himanshu1225 (135)
• India
12 Jan 07
i generally dont lie on the internet unless there is a specific reason to do so..
@himanshu1225 (135)
• India
12 Jan 07
I generally dont lie on the internet... why should i when there is no such benefit by lieing to a person whom u dont know n there r no good or bad consequences of doing so