Friends in mylot community
By dellion
@dellion (6698)
Malaysia
January 11, 2007 12:32am CST
Last few days I have been recommended a very good paid forum by one my good friend from mylot and after visit the forum myself to find out it was really worth to join I then decided to spread the news to others mylot members who were in my friend's list in hope that some of my friends can join there too so will have more funs as well as earns more........The replies after almost 150 PM which took me for hour to send was really surprise me.....I got only 3 replies!! I have seen lots of discussions that complaining about the definitions for "friends" in mylot and now I realized that actually there's really not much meanings for the features of "Friends" within the community. I am not going to repeat the silly invitations anymore in future except those few really nice friends that I know will at least reply me even with a very short message.."Thanks for the info". I am not try to complaining or get angry to any one for this type of thing to be happened just that I think we really need to think about it before we click on the "accept button whenever there's a friends requests.How many of you did come across the same experience like me? I am pretty sure there must be some of you will have the similar experiences like mine.....mind to share it here?
2 responses
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
12 Jan 07
Out of 60 friends I have only 10 are reliable in the sense, let them not do any favours, at least they promptly answer our PMs. Rest of them, I call bunch of jokers. They expect me to always answer their discussions. I have put them in junk box, only when I get response from them for my discussion, I respond to their discussion. I fully agree with you in this regard. Now I decided not to entertain any one as friend.
@dellion (6698)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 07
Yeah most were here to add up tons of friends to expect something in return or just simply to show off on profile page which I read on one of the member's comment here. Me too were just do the same like you which am start to choosing whenever I make comments or responses to others discussions. Am not try to be selfish but just put my time for something/someone more deserved it.Am glad that at least I still manage to have few really nice and helpful friends like you in the community. Thanks for your values respond to my entire topic.
@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I haven't experienced this before but I'm sure it happens. Alot of people just want a status symbol so they try to get as many friends as possible. There are only a few of mine that actually respond to some of my posts. I don't take it personally though. It's just the way it is.
@dellion (6698)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 07
I think maybe they just don't want to deny the request so just approve them all. I post this topic not try to blame any of my friends in the list even am not getting their replies. Me too will accepts all the friends requests myself but unable to responses to all my friend's discussions as there's always too many discussions from friends coming in almost every minute and sometime I have no ideas on how to reply on certain topics. The only thing from friend I seldom miss was the Pm from them. Thanks for your views for the topic.
