Strip clubs---pros and cons?

Well, that is a very hard question....I would have to say there are no pros when you are looking at from the others perspective. Sure you might have fun at your party, but if the two of you are even asking this question, than I would have to say there are some insecurities or worries somewhere, and that alone should be a big red flag. I remember the one and only time I let my husband go to a bachelor party and see a stripper...oh lord! I ended up having to stop by the party for some reason (surely one I had made up to check on him) and when they answered the door and I saw what was going on inside that house while I waited on the front porch for him, I went nutts. My own insecurities that I didn't even realize were there hit me like a ton of bricks, and wow, I have never felt the same again about strippers and my man. If your questioning it, I would recommend not, why? Because that is a sure sign that the cons outweigh the pros! Congrats on your engagement!!!!!!