Help me out, I loved her but she lied to me

@mjalingo (169)
Nigeria
January 11, 2007 3:31am CST
A lady proposed date to me and I honor it, But after meeting her for couple of times i discovered that she lied that she was single, but she is not. please help me out. I have falling for her.
8 responses
• India
11 Jan 07
Well now you know the truth so you decide, are you that much in love with her to marry her? Or she wants to marry you? If your fallen for her as you said dosent look at the horizon of marriage then I think its not love but rather mutual attraction so grow up on that and move on with life.
@mjalingo (169)
• Nigeria
11 Jan 07
Thanks a lot, I will prefer that and will move on with life as you said.
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
honesty is essential to every relationship. building trust means everything in dating. clear things up with her... have a good communication. if you think you can forgive her, give her a second chance. if she does it again. its best to move on.
@mjalingo (169)
• Nigeria
11 Jan 07
She is not single, I don't want her to leave her matrimonial home.And still love her.
• Canada
11 Jan 07
If she lies, she's not worth your time.
@mjalingo (169)
• Nigeria
11 Jan 07
But sometimes we said love is blind, even when I closed my eyes I still remembered the good time we had.I can't imagine living without.
@mindz_me (179)
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
Don't waste ur time and effort for her. Just accept the fact that shes committed already. Just try to move on and let the time heal ur heart wound. Find another lady who is worth for ur love time and care. If she lied to u now she will do it again and again...
@argelo (65)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
Jsut find another one for you!
• Indonesia
11 Jan 07
i've been on that situation before ... it depends on you, do you think that faithful is above all ? if you do, then better stay away from her ... but if you don't then give her a chance ... (i assume that she's not married yet, if she's a married woman, then go as far as you can from her)
• India
11 Jan 07
I you really loved her and she also have the same means you can go ahead.Why im telling this is because if she told this before to you,you may not accept this so that only she may respond like this.
@kushal24 (200)
• India
11 Jan 07
hey man if ypu are really falling for her then you should ask her why she lied to you.sit with her and make sure that there are no misunderstandings between you too.then ask her where she wants to take the realtionship.i think you should leave all this to her as she was the one who started all this