Need Suggestion for my friend

India
January 11, 2007 4:34am CST
Hello all, i need some help for my friend, My friend loves a guy and the guy also loves him, they both want to marry each other, there would be no problem from guy's family and they will readily agree for this marriage but my friends parents are very strict and now they are planning for her marriage, they even selected a guy for her but she doesn't want to marry the guy that her parrents choosed, niether she can tell her parents about her b/f as her parents will thrash her if they come to know about this. They is no one in the family (i mean her relatives) who can support her to convience her parrents for the same. I don't understand how can i help my friend so that she can marry with her b/f
3 responses
@mariam74 (555)
• Egypt
11 Jan 07
Why he is going to say that he is her b/f he just goes to her parrents as any normal man as if he doesn't know the girl at all and offer to marry her and if her parrents refused so she must take an action first she tries to persuade her parrents and if there is no way so she can marry him without saying to anyone and after a time say to them the truth.
• India
12 Jan 07
Well i don't think this will work, as the guy's family is in no way contact to her family, and i don't think her parents will even entertain them, still will try by telling her, might this thing works.
@runsgame (2031)
• India
11 Jan 07
IN MY OPINION , YOU NEED TO CONSULT A SOCIAL INSTUTIONS , WHO CAN PASSIFY BOTHE THE FAMILIES AND MAKE THE COUPLE MARRIED. THERE ARE MANY ORGANISATIONS OF THIS TYPE . KINDLY GO FOR THAT
• Romania
11 Jan 07
Maybe you canot help her.Maybe she is the only one who can help herself.He must confront her parrents and must tell them about his boyfriend...and if they don't let her get marry with them then maybe she better leave out for their home and go marry with that boy if she thinck that he diserve that.But that is her decizion.he must have the courage to face her problem.You can only be close to her and support her in need.