mother or wife?

Accordinng to me both of them are important.Every men has a great oscillation in this.But one of these two will have a bit greater importance in a men's life,thats our wife,why because she is the one who leave her family and coming with her husband so men has to give a greater improtance and she is also a good mother to her childrens.

Aaha! the typical Indian man's dilemma - Mother or Wife? I would think that you should listen to both of them and use your judgement. Or you can give more weightage to your wifes opinion and feel guilty for not being fair or give more weightage to your mother and make your life a living hell or divorce :

i think this is a very tricky question to answer and if to answer is to choose between two , then i will try to ascertain facts before deciding

Mother has lovedus, looked after us and raised us. Shes the reason behind what we are today. She seen more of this world than we have. Her opinion is should be given more importance than your wife who just came into your life yesterday. A good wife will consider you mom as her own mom and will give importance to her opinion.

i would definately go for my mother as she had taken care of me when i aws young and even now she takes care of me.i can anyday leave my wife for my mother