i love her/him... but at the same time i like someone else.....
By julius_palma
@julius_palma (7)
Philippines
January 11, 2007 10:04am CST
Have you ever experienced having someone you've wanted for your whole life, and then finally they came and completed you, but as days go by and people come and go, you suddenly find someone you like, not as much as the one you've commited to, but someone to hang around with, or flirt with, or become really really close to? What would you do? Is it a crime?
4 responses
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
7 May 08
Nope. I haven't. But if it would happen, i would first do a very deep assessment if I really like the new person who just cane or I'm just intrigued by the thrill of meeting someone new. You might have already gotten used to the one you're committed to and things get so complacent that you get bored. Think about it :)
@Yanagi06 (23)
• United States
22 Mar 07
It's not a crime unless your married but it isn't the right thing either. If you are feeling that way then you need to stop and rethink about the relationship you are in. Try and figure out why you are feeling the way you are. What it sounds like is you're bored with the relationship you're in. Sit down and talk to your loved one. And meet somewhere in the middle. Think of more things to do together.
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
7 May 08
No I have found the love of my life and I am engaged to her, and she makes me happy,I believe its wrong to love someone and like someone else,and especially if you plan on flirting with that person,behind the back of the one you are commited too,I dont know if it is considered a crime,but it should be,cause in the end if the love of your life finds out it could hurt them,and ruin your relationship at the same time.
