guys what to do with them

you can't. Guys don't handle that kind of stuff the same way women do. Best to just try and impress him so much or "sweep him off his feet" so that he wants to spend more time with you after the first one night stand. If you can do anything to get the memory stuck in his brain (obviously positive memory) than that will be the best tool to try and have him coming back for more. Worked for me, and I have been happily married to my woman that swept me off my feet for many years now.

How long have u been with him ? If it was a one nite I would just explain to him how u feel ,just be honest with him. maybe he feels the same way and also isnt saying anything, just be honest with him .. good luck