When can you tell that you're ready for marriage????
By xylee112201
@xylee112201 (108)
Philippines
January 11, 2007 2:15pm CST
I was just wonderin' whether how can you tell when you're ready to marry that someone you love??
Can it be thru your feelings? financial status? age (laughs!)?
6 responses
@firemansgirl001 (916)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I think that age is a big one, but also maturity plays a big part. If they are immature, then definately not ready for marriage. I also think that it is best to wait until you are able to support yourself. Have a good job.
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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11 Jan 07
I would like to think that i would know when it is the right time to get married by simply by the way that i feel and also by the feeling that it is right and i am so in love with the person that i am with and i want to spend the rest of my life with that person
@SageMother (2277)
• United States
11 Jan 07
What i Have noticed is that when people are ready for marriage, they already "feel" married to those around them.
The waytheyinteract, thenergy they send out all reflects a bond that has already formed. The actual ceremony is more about saying "I AM devoted to this person and this relationship", more than "I WISH to devote myself to this person and our relationship".
It is based more on your actions and less on those feelings that youhear about in great love novels and fairytales.
Thinking of marriage as "secular devotion" is probably the best way to describe the situation.
@delhirockz (569)
• India
11 Jan 07
When you feel that you can keep ur wife happy and give her everything that she need .....