moving in with my boyfriend

Be sure you keep asavings account so that if you need to make a change, like moving out, you can do so without having to wait. Be sure you keep your finances separate, and keep track of who purchases what items for thehome. That will be less of an issue once you are married, but you need to remember that you aren't married yet. Talk with him about your expectations for how you will live together. Everything from c hores to billpaying will be important since he might be expecting things of you that he will not expect from himsdelf. Be sure those expectations are EQUAL and that you don't end up being in the role of "Wife" without the benefits. You are right to be frightened, and you might want to think about why you are. You would probably be better off not moving in withhim until you are married. It feels like a part of you is not really too keen on not having that official standing. If he won't marry then he's not worth your time and there's no point in you giving up your freedom.

I would say make sure you know about all his character traits..if he is a slob, or the type that thinks he should be catered to..I knew not to move in with my boyfriend when he would stay over..he just turned me off from the whole concept of being in the house with him..just make sure you really know this guy..and if its his place, make sure you are on the lease so you cannot get thrown out if you guys argue..and make sure that you have another place you can go to when you need space..like your parents house or something...

marriage is not a game that we just get in to and gives up when we feel like we're not winning. it should be a lifetime commitment even if there's divorce. divorce is a fashion trend these days. and many wants to be in fashion. so, think first. i know you're really inlove and that your boyfriend loves you, too. but think first if you are prepared emotionally and financially already to settle down with him. if you are, then go ahead. if not, then don't rush.

Trust your gut -- if you really listen to your inner voice, it won't steer you wrong. There are questions that you should consider:Does he love your kids?Do your kids love him?Do you see him as a permanent part of your life, and in the lives of your children?Is he financially responsible?Is he gentle natured?Do you know, REALLY know, that he loves you?Does he bring out the best in you?Do you trust him?Can you easily imagine your life without him?Is he on your side, even when the rest of the world isn't?Those are just a few things to think about, but the bottom line always remains the same -- trust your gut. BTW -- you have beautiful kids! :O)

convince ur parents and then he;s... never do so.. go ahead with the help of elders .. make a discussion with ur elders and decide what to do !

Everyone is a bit nervous living with someone, just make sure he isn't another jerk like the one you were married to and be fair with each other and i'm sure it will work out just fine.

if u love him and trust him then go ahead