I am a little upset

Honestly, I haven't really paid much attention to which friends have posted on my discussions. While reading through my own discussions, I see them but I don't really think about it much. I try to post as much as I can on my friends discussions. Having a lot of friends can be time consuming but it also gives me more discussions to look through to see if I can respond with something worthwhile. In the terms of money or points, I think you only need two people to respond to your discussion to get anything. I don't think it matters if you have lots of replies. But for me its not just about the points and I think its the same for you. I do understand why you are upset but I myself just don't worry about it too much. I know I should probably clean out my friends list but I don't have the heart to delete anyone.

I go through the "discussions my friends started" sometimes and just respond to the ones that sound interesting or a topic I can throw my 2 cents in... I really don't look back to see which friends respond more, the only ones I notice and reply to are the one's that continually make me laugh, think, etc... Plus, those "friends" usually give you good responses too...

i'm sorry that's happening to you but you live and your learn, don't hold a grudge about it, move on to bigger and better things(smile).

You have provided me a good information. Usually I respond to only a few friend's discussion, hereafter I will try to respond to every friend discussion. You have made me to know about friend's expectation. Thank you.

I can't speak for everyone but if they are not around or busy that is always possible. Just to be fair if you had not spoken to them. But if you have then obviously they are thinking about themselves. I would suggest you talk to your friend and find out what's going on. Or just stop posting on their discussions...

I have friends because we can reply to each other's comments and we can talk to each other sometimes

I try to reply to friends discussions.I have not been on here as much as I would like lately but when I am the first place I go is discussions friends started.Thats how I found this but it is hard to respond to all of them.

Hey, I completely get that!!! I have periodically gone through my friends and deleted people that never respond to me. I can understand that from time to time that a friend my not be interested or have no real input to my discussion. That is fine. But to never comment to my discussions when I have posted to numerous of their discussions...it isn't fair!! I have noticed that some people get friends just to have many people to respond to them. But me, I don't make that many discussions. I prefer to respond than create. But there are times that i do create just because something is on my mind. And when that does happen, I see who are my real friends by responding! Also...I have recently noticed that my notify had been turning off on some friends. This is very upsetting because some discussions get lost in the shuffle. So, to ANY of my friends out there, if I have not responded to you as often...my notify may need to be turned back on. Feel free to send me a message if you haven't heard from me in a while. This will help me and you. :) Great discussion!!!

That is really sad, i know such things are obvious to happen. Even though we say that we are making friends here, still they are not actually our friends. Its just a kind of deal, so they could assure some replies for their own discussions. Most of them even don't have a look at their friends list. I do expect them to contribute my discussions, many more people are here who can have same interests like me. You did a good thing to remove them from your list, at least you wont need to face frustration in future.

To be honest, I don't think about checking my friend's discussions.. not very often, anyway. If there is somebody who is consistently checking my profile to look for my discussions, and posts replies, then I will return the favor. I'm not trying to be rude at all, but when I sign on here, it's hard enough trying to reply to whoever answered my own discussions.. I still have discussions I haven't answered any of the replies to! So I don't really have a chance yet to go looking at everybody's profiles and stuff. I do when I have a free moment, but otherwise, I generally don't. I'm sorry. :(

I try to respond first to my friends discussion. That's what I think friends are for, sharing common interests, debating and sharing experiences.

Maybe they don't use computer or visit mylot as often.

i have also experienced the same thing. actually most people just make friends and they don't bother to answer to their friend's discussions.It is also very hurtening. you have valid reason to be upset.

friends in need r friends in deed... actually in our daily routine we should try to spend sometime for them,..

I don't blame you for being upset. If they are asking to be your friend, then it should not be a one sided friendship on my lot, or a one way street per se. I think we are all here to help one another hopefully. I try to answer and reply as often as I can. As it stands recently I do have a sick family member, but awoke early today, so I can reply today. I haven't cleaned out my friends yet, as I do think alot of my friends do reply, and try to answer some of my discussions.

im sorry to hear that but i think there are a lot of people requesting friends listing without working out exactly what it means to be on one. To me if you are on someones friends list it is because you are genuinly interested in the majority of discussions that they start. With this in mind, you will find yourself responding to their discussions more than you will to others. However, if you have an extensive friends list it is very difficult to service them all, please dont jump to the conclusion that you are being ignored it may well be that this person has too many people to service adequately good luck keep on posting

I have also cleaned out my list. I check the "discussions my friends have started" several times a day and I wish all would do the same. I guess all people don´t see it like that though!

calm down, maybe they have problem or maybe they are very busy and have no time at all. you have no right to force people to do what you like.

better to forget that and move with them together!

I don't really care if people post things back to my discussions because of not knowing if they had a good or bad day. Sometimes people just don't have the time. It shouldn't bother you, but if it does, ask them about it.