evil stepmom?
By whitneyX3
@whitneyX3 (217)
United States
January 11, 2007 6:21pm CST
it's true..i'm one of the many unfortunate souls to have a stepmom...my dad got remarried a few years ago and i cant stand her!! she's such a b*tch and wats worse...is that she has a daughter of her own from a previous marrige and treats her like the prefect angel that she ISNT and treats me like sh*t!! my dad sees wats going on..but he doesnt do anything about it!! im sick and tired of her always wanted me to get in trouble when her daughter is and when i didnt even do anything!! i know im not the only one with a stepmom..but is everyone elses' so evil???
if u do have an mean stepmom please share your stories!
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4 responses
@Crystalwatson345 (441)
• United States
12 Jan 07
I dont know I dont have a step mom or dad but I have heard there are evil ones youll just have to find a way to get your dad to see what she is doing. get a tape recorder or hidden camera.
@whitneyX3 (217)
• United States
12 Jan 07
he knows what she's doing! the problem is he wont do anything...i think he''s scared of her! i would be too! i just dont see what made him ever want to marry someone like her...
@seenoreen (559)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
You need to talk to your dad. Tell him that it's unfair for you to be treated that way by your stepmom. You could also try talking to her and ask why she treats you like that.
I don't understand why some people treat their step daughters bad. Then on the other hand, there are people who treat their adopted children like their own.
@lonewolfnan (4366)
• Canada
23 Feb 07
I had a stepfather who was a drunk and a bully.The next step father was not a bully,just always drunk.
I was a stepfather(not legally) and I am sure the 2 step daughters have some aweful stories about me,but this was from their view only and I know I always tried to do what was best for the family.One girl was having problems with her mom and ran away.We told her she could come back.I receive a phone call from her asking me to get money from my Visa card as she has not eaten in a few days.I told her no,but that I would come get her to bring her home where there was food.She said no and that was the end of the call.Later,when she did come back,she told the case worker I starved her and would not help.I knew it was not true,but that is how SHE interpretted everything.Sometimes as an outsider,you can't seem to do anything right even with the best of intentions.
@Crystalwatson345 (441)
• United States
12 Jan 07
well i know this sounds mean but do evil sh** back to her go out of your way to be mean and maybe she will stop being mean to you. just a suggestion it may not work.
@wickedstepma (940)
• United States
7 Feb 07
Hi. As you can see by my username, I am a stepmom. It's not the fact of being a stepmom that makes you nice or not, it's the individual person.
To be fair, if you were honest with yourself, have you given her a chance, or did you give her attitude from the start? I don't know her, so she could just be a mean person. My experience, though, has been great. My stepson and I get along great. No, he doesn't always get his way, but that's not because he's a "step".
I think you need to sit down and think everything through. Maybe write down all your concerns, and then ask your dad and stepmom, and maybe your stepsister, too, if you can all sit down and set some guidelines. It really does take an effort from all involved to make things work. And there will be fights sometimes, just like in "regular" families.
Good luck!
