when to say goodbye to your love one?

Philippines
January 11, 2007 10:50pm CST
it's been almost 3 years since we tie the knots. since then we always have a fight, we don't talk most of the time. on our first year, i usually ask him of what he wants to eat, what to wear, what time he'll be home, etc but all his answers are not good so eventually i dont ask him anymore. we dont have a good communication. Do you think its time to say goodbye? i really dont know what to do now, i wanted to leave him and start a new life but there are things that i need to consider also...kids.
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pusiket
@pusiket (1756)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
Communication is the only problem you have. Better talk to him heart to heart. After the talk, that's the right time to decide whether to still go on with the relationship.
jbones32103
@jbones32103 (717)
• United States
12 Jan 07
Talk to him and let him know how you feel and what you are thinking. He might feel the same way.
missytia
@missytia (387)
• Australia
12 Jan 07
I am so sorry to hear that your relationship is not all that you hoped it would be. Have you tried talking to you husband about your concerns and the way you are feeling? Maybe suggest some marriage counselling. I tried all this with my ex husband but he didn't seem interested in repairing out marriage. So, I told him it was over. My daughter was 2yrs old at the time. I don't believe a couple should stay together if they are unhappy, just because of the kids. Kids pick up on the tension in the household. It is better that children know they are loved even though their parents can't get along. And it's also better for children if their parents can be happier separated than unhappy, living together. Good luck with whatever you decide. I know what you're going through and it's not an easy decision to make.