guys, i can't understand them
By amaine
@amaine (2027)
Philippines
January 12, 2007 9:03am CST
guys , , why are they so hard to understand? , , one day , , they are smiling, , everything's fine , , and with a snap , , their world falls apart, , you know what i mean , , i'm not saying that all guys are like that , , but most guys that i know , , they sometimes tend to be moody , , especially with their girlfriend , ,
it's just like, , everything is alright , , then the minute after , , he'll just burst out like flames , ,
sometimes, , when you ask them if they are mad , , they'll say they are not , , but they make you fell they are , , hello? girls are not stupid , , girls have feelings too!
*sigh*
i just want to know, , why can't i understand how guys think? , , i can't seem to read what's on their minds , ,
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58 responses
@stonehr (818)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
12 Jan 07
This is a problem because some people are not so open to talk. Sometimes is maybe better or easier to say ' I'm not mad'.Girls are more open about feelings to talk about it than some guys.Maybe Your bf will not to start conversation about why he is mad while he don't know how to explain it to You.
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@magdollars23 (1684)
• United States
12 Jan 07
You will never fully be able to understand any person male or female so just dont try lol. Get what you can get and leave it at that.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
12 Jan 07
i do not think that this is men only, I havea feeling they describe us in the same way, We are different and that consider a gvood thing - but i do belive tat the things you just described are both male and female things =)
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@Kangleicha (376)
• India
12 Jan 07
It is not only men, I do agree, it is the nature of human being. Everyone acts like that. Humans are very complex beings and their motives are unfathomable even at the best of times.
@spreadout (127)
• Nigeria
12 Jan 07
Basically i think the girls are more difficult to understand than the guys,most of the times the guys are very easy to understand,but sometimes our girls do all kind of stupid things and expect us to just keep quite and be happy,when a guy suddenly clams up,know that,he is protesting something you've done and he's trying to tell you that he understands perfectly your little trick,when you are nice to your guy,he has no reason to be sulking,forget the saying that we are from mars or wherever,we also have feelings,Girls,how about starting to respect those feelings!!
@joan_hazle (127)
• India
12 Jan 07
that why they say, guys are from Mars and gals are from Venus. they are aliens, amaine. So we just can't understand them. they are from a different dimension altogether. Anyways see the good part, there unpredictable nature can sometimes make them awesomely romantic.
@malaekat2an (526)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 07
amaine, have you ever read the book said that "men are from mars and women are from venus", written by john gray ? you'll find a lot of answers on that book, which i recomend you to read =) ...
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@properdazcrazy (53)
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12 Jan 07
Well if we could read other peoples minds that would jjust take the fu out of ti.
And not all guys are the same, dependning on theor age and experience
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@kerbausama (1335)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 07
thats normal for a man coz not every time our mood is ok.just like you when you are in period time.So what the most important is understanding ok.
life is great!
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@smbilalshah (1316)
• Pakistan
12 Jan 07
well we think the same about girls one time they r so predictable and the other who know, i mean they r totally weird and esp the evil ones u can never comprehend their mind games
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@gary87 (129)
• India
12 Jan 07
i must ask you the question the other way round. whats in your mind that you cant understand us??? we are as clear as the ice. its the minds of the girls that are impossible to read, they are all the while flickering in their decisions
@HighPriestess (739)
• Melbourne, Florida
12 Jan 07
I think men would say the same about us. It is not gender related. It's part of life. Our feelings change from one minute to the next and from day to day. Men are not conditioned to examine their feelings or talk about them the way women are. Most of them have had to learn to deal with them on their own in some private way.
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@HighPriestess (739)
• Melbourne, Florida
12 Jan 07
I think men would say the same about us. It is not gender related. It's part of life. Our feelings change from one minute to the next and from day to day. Men are not conditioned to examine their feelings or talk about them the way women are. Most of them have had to learn to deal with them on their own in some private way.
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@ComputerK1ng (79)
• United States
12 Jan 07
Im a guy and ill tell you what i think it is... Guys are Guys, we dont want women to worry about they things we do such as paying bills, taking care of the family etc. Im not saying this is always the situation... When i usually get moody is when i feel like im failing at my dutie as a guy/husband. Then i dont want to tell my wife because i dont want her to be worried as well. I know that with me it will blow over but she will worry her self more than i am And shes not even the one handling it. Hope this helps and Good Luck on finding your anwser
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@soadnot (1606)
• Canada
12 Jan 07
What?! girls are the moody ones. they are hard to understand. when you ask "are you alrite?" they say "oh, its okay" but you know someinth is wrong so u gota keep asking them until you get sumtn out of em and they like it? iuno. guys dont care about anything really
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@Lil_miz_ice_x (614)
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13 Jan 07
Yeah, but a LOT of guys seem to have THIS mentality -- I don't know any girls who are as moody as this -- so why do YOU think ''some'' men do it?
@Adrenochrome (1653)
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14 Jan 07
Don't you say in your posting that you don't believe your boyfriend (trusting your perceived feelings over his words), we men are quite simple beasts really.
@starboy (119)
• Pakistan
12 Jan 07
hi amaine i just agree those who have said that all boys are not same as we know that five fingers could never be same so depends on experience and the u see that how he feels,nd how he expresses so i think u should try to get the way of those guys who behave great nd also try to understand that matter good luck!
@jbones32103 (717)
• United States
12 Jan 07
watch how guys respond to what you say in order to find out what they are sensitive about. That will help
@properdazcrazy (53)
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12 Jan 07
Well if we could read other peoples minds that would jjust take the fun out of it.
And not all guys are the same, dependning on theor age and experience
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